Friends behaving badly

United States
May 11, 2007 5:16pm CST
What would you do if a good friend of yours started treating you like crap when they got around other people? Dump the friendship? Confront the friend?
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@ashar123 (2357)
• India
11 May 07
First of all I"ll find that why my friend is treating me like a crap. If its not my fault then i"ll just dump the friendship. Its 100% that my friend was mean and had achieved his goal from me thats why he is acting strange. Its real hard to find sincere and kind friends nowadays.
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• United States
12 May 07
Yes it is, That's why I like my critters. Thanks for your response.
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@crickethear (1417)
• United States
11 May 07
I would want to know why they were doing it. If it was a relationship were saving, I would find out why. If they aren't the best friend, then why bother, and just move on. Friends shouldn't do that. Who wants to be degraded and put down at someone else expense. I have a friend and he and I were talking about that very thing. He was telling me that he had this friend, and he was buying a house, and this friend was going to co-sign on the loan. He went in this restaurant to meet him, so he could sign it. My friend didn't have a pen, and his friend was with another friend, and the place was crowded, he turned and said you don't have a pen??? How do you expect to amount to anything, if you don't even carry a pen on you. Needless to say, that was the end of the friendship.
• United States
11 May 07
She's alot younger than me and very immature, I have tried to help her out the best I can with advice about life but she would never listen anyways then find out that what I would said would happen, happened. I think it's a lost cause too. Thanks for your advice.
@tina12679 (1126)
• United States
12 May 07
Confront your friend. Get the reasons as to why this is happening. Maybe he or she doesnt realize that they are making you feel this way. I f he or she is doing it on perpose then maybe you should tell this friend that it bothers you and you dont feel treated like a friend should be treated if this friend does nothing to correct how they treat you around other people then this friend obviously does not care about your feelings enough to change this so thus lose the friend.
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