how would you react when you deserve a reward and was denied of it?

Philippines
May 12, 2007 12:48am CST
things like this usually happens when we are at school or in the workplace and unfortunately, it happens spontaneously and we end up speechless and angry. if this situation happened to me, i would be really angry at first and curse the person who got all the glory that belonged to me. then, maybe a few days after, id be back to my old self. what about you, what would you do if you were in this situation?
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@vega83 (6345)
• Bahrain
13 May 07
Well, this hasn't happened to me, yet, I think, but then it could be one of those things, that was one of the many I didn't notice. So what would I do? Well, I definitely wouldn't curse the person who did get it, because I don't see how it is their fault. I guess it's the fault of the person, who didn't see my achievement over theirs and gave out the reward to the wrong person. That would be the one to blame. But then what's the point in blaming anyway? I guess I would feel real sucky at first, if I can do something about it, then I would, but if I can't do anything to change the situation, then I don't see any point in sulking and making myself feel worse about it. But I guess my answer's not that accurate as this hasn't happened to me yet.
• Philippines
23 May 07
hello there. i really like the way you put things in perspective. i appreciate the way you would probably react in this situation. its very sensible of you to not go blaming around just anybody. you see to it that you blame the right person. :) but yeah, theres no actual point of blaming because it had already happened. well, thank you so much for participating in my discussion. :)
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@vega83 (6345)
• Bahrain
30 May 07
You're welcome.... Yeah, well, I've never been a fan of the blame game, especially if it won't make the situation any better...
• Philippines
30 May 07
yes, you are right. there are times when we just dont have to blame others. we just have to accept that sometimes, it is our fault and then there;s no one else to blame. :)
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• United States
23 May 07
i pretty much would be mad that i didnt get what was rightfully mine but i pretty much wouldnt get totally bummed. its life
• Philippines
23 May 07
hello there. yes, you are right, we have to accepth this kind of situations sometimes, because life isnt perfect, and neither is it fair. lolz. thank you so much for answering my discussion. :) and i suppose you're new here in mylot, right? well, welcome to mylot! :)