I told my feelings to her....It was all my fault..

Philippines
May 12, 2007 1:10am CST
Well, to put it in a short way....here's the story (Bad guy's point of view). I had a friend who I had feelings for, we talked for four months. However, I acted stupid and now it was the same time I told my feelings to her, now she is disgusted at the fact that I had feelings for her. Her friends even guard me when i try to seek apology from her. And then, her friends now are having beef with me due to my annoying traits and stuff, they now even ignore me. It was all my fault, I shouldn't have felt any feelings for her. I'm sorry, that is all what i could say for now. NOTE: We were only friends for four months Any help would be greatly appreciated God bless and stay blessed, Rauldapogi
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5 responses
• United States
12 May 07
Well its nice that you have expressed your feelings for her and the sad part is that she and her friends are not able to understand you, so dont worry take it at ease, Have faith in God and and sooner or later she will realize it.
• Philippines
12 May 07
Hope so, but one thing is certain, I thank God that restoration will come at His Proper Time. Right now, I gotta chill and enjoy what God has to offer on life. God bless and stay blessed, Rauldapogi
@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
4 Feb 08
It is not a fault to be honest with your feelings. If the girl doesn't want you, perhaps, she could tell it straight to you. No need for her to treat you like someone with communicable desease. She should be fair with you.
@innechen (1318)
• Indonesia
12 May 07
i dont see why its wrong to love someone that appear to be a friend of yours? she should not ignore you just because you love her.i suggest for you to let her alone for a while then talk to her again after that.good luck
@cassiezm (89)
• Philippines
12 May 07
Loving and to feel loved is the best feeling that you could ever felt...I think theres no wrong of saying how special would be the person to you and how you love her. You should not regret because you are just letting her know that she has a place in your heart. A part that only special person can be placed. But for you to save your friendship, you should just wait and be contented of what you have right now. And that contentment is to accept that you are just friends for this time and you'll never know, maybe she would also see how good is your heart and fall in love of you....
• United States
4 Feb 08
stop explaining..women do not believe only what they see or friends tell them..it is that simple..you must build up her trust one day at a time and don't make a big deal if you screwed up or made a mistake...nobody is perfect..if you seem too nice you will be mistaken for being weak...women don't like guys who talk too much even though they themselves are guilty of this trait...you never know what a women is thinking and i have seen a lot of women think twice about you if you play the hard to get game too..Hell has no fury like a women scorned...but do as you want but don't always try to be the nice guy..good guys don't always win the fare lady