Girlfriend or boyfriend?

I actually have a husband, but I also have girlfriends from time to time. I hate the term boyfriend and girlfriend though. I love th word partner, because that's what you are or what you SHOULD be is partners.

I just don't believe in all these nonsense...having a boyfriend or a girlfriend is just waste of time..already in our lives there are lot of tensions like studying..bunking classes without giving any knowledge to our lecturers..should tease juniors..and lot of things include in this...at this tight situation of time where there is time to maintain a girlfriend or boyfriend to any body... to maintain them there needs a lot of time, money...for which we should even waste our sleeps which i think is the best part of life so guys seriously not interested in all these stuff....but to say something seriously that never ever can be love between a girl and a boy its just an attraction thats it and for that attraction can't spoil my life and ruin my parents hopes which they have on me...so no girl friend and no boy friend = happy life...

i have an husband, since 15 years!