May 12, 2007 9:07am CST
I was just sitting browsing the web looking to see what wedding dresses there on now a days... I was married for the first time in 2001 and then last year on 26 May i got divorced. Now my ex husband and I have been working on the problems that lead to us getting divorced and things are going really well and we are discussing getting re-married next year 24 September. However, I had a very simple wedding on my first wedding - nothning too fancy at it was a home wedding in Cape Town... Now I am not too sure what to do for this wedding? I am not sure what I should wear to begin with and I think it will be a bigger wedding than our first just because all our friends are here and will not have to come all the way down to Cape Town like the first time... So I need some advise... Desperately because I am not sure where to begin... Anybody that can assist... please do....???
15 May 07
Well..first of all let me congratulate you..it is great that you and your ex are working things out. Since the first time, you guys had a small wedding id say go all out in this once. I believe marriage is beautiful ceremony to be shared by all. You are getting an opportunity to do this the right way again.
12 May 07
Hi Lucille, Oh that is wonderful news I am so happy for you that I hope and pray that everything works out for you with your ex husband sometimes we do not realize what eithr of us do to tear a marriage apart I have not re married my ex but I did have a long separation from my former husband and know what we both did wrong and have since come back together and lot more better than our earlier married days. I would love to be able to help you but I do not know what kind of dress you really would prefer, or what colour but I do hope that you find something that really takes your fancy.
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13 May 07
Hi Kathy! Thank you so much... it is a great thing that has started to happen and I am grateful for your love and support in this... I believe that one has greater success in making a second marriage work when you re-marry your ex and solve your differences. I am really grateful for this... I am not sure on what colour or dress or whatever, and this is so confusing to me... I am blonde, blue eyes, and pale complexion... and worst of all I am not sure what the do's and dont's are of a second wedding... I am really confused about it all. But thank you so much for your response... I really appreciate it very much. Take care until we chat again.