How Much Is A Mother Worth?

United States
May 12, 2007 12:09pm CST
Tomorrow, May 13th is Mother's Day here in the United States. I began wondering how much all the mothers would be worth if you could put a dollar amount on it. I know all mothers feel that taking care of their children is the motherly thing to do and wouldn't have it any other way. But in terms of dollars, how much is nuturing, cooking, cleaning and all of the other things associated with motherhood worth? For instance, how much does it cost to have a nanny? How much would it cost to have someone come in and cook and clean for you? Some day care centers can charge a few hundred dollars per week. And how much would it cost to have a taxi-driver take the little ones to soccer or baseball practice, and all of the other travels associated with motherhood? I know many of you don't view motherhood in terms of dollars, but I just thought it would be interesting to try and figure out just how much your time and effort is really worth. What are your thoughts on this discussion? Or should this not even be considered for a discussion? Lloyd
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24 responses
@jerryn (819)
• United States
12 May 07
Hi Lloyd, There's no way to measure the worth of a mother. Have you ever listened to the song by Shirley Ceaser called No Charge? Being a mother entails a lot of labor of love. It's the best source of giving and receiving love.
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@jerryn (819)
• United States
13 May 07
Lloyd try going to http://www.pandora.com and do a search for Shirley Ceaser and search for the song No Charge. I always go to that site for the old time gospels.
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• Philippines
12 May 07
i agree with you that a mother is never within the measure of money. treasures so dear will never have a price tag which can justify its price. love is priceless, love is boundless. a mother's love nurtures life and no one can put a price on life.
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• United States
13 May 07
Thanks a lot. Will check it out. Lloyd
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@sunita64 (6469)
• India
12 May 07
Mother and sons - My sister with her son.
My dear friend not everything in this world can be assessed in terms of money.Mother and her love is one such priceless blessing in this world. It is said that when god could not come to this world for every child so he made mother.I truly believe in it and feel so.
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• United States
12 May 07
"It is said that when god could not come to this world for every child so he made mother." Thank you for that wonderful reply. I'm sure everyone here at MyLot would agree with you. LLoyd
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@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
12 May 07
It is said that when God could not come to this world for every child so he made mother. How beautiful are these words Sunita, I will always remember this. Thank you for sharing this.
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@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
12 May 07
wow, nice words sunita! :)
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
12 May 07
I do not belive that mothers can have a price coz to be true there are alot of different mothers out there, My mom is the best and I would value her to a million times a million times a million, times a million - get the point *lol* I know that my mom has done everything for me and my brothers and she has had to sacrifie alot - that does not have a price. Its like putting a price on love....
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• United States
12 May 07
A million times a million times a million, times a million sound about right. lol Your mother is a great person. I can tell just by the way you speak of her. I wish you and her the best. Lloyd
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• Romania
13 May 07
i think you're right i"m sorry i can't say the same about my mother but i 'll try to be the best mom for my little girl
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• United States
12 May 07
if A mother were to be paid an hourly rate fro all the jobs she does from chaffeur to peacekeeper to every job she does no one could possibly afford her !
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• United States
12 May 07
That would be one hell of a payday. I'm sure you deserve every dollar. Happy mother's day. Lloyd
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• United States
12 May 07
I forgot about putting peacekeeper in her resume. That definately is a big part of motherhood when there is more than one child involved. You are right. No one could afford her. Lloyd
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• United States
12 May 07
I raised 4 all alone wonder when i get paid?LOL
• United States
14 May 07
Being a mother is priceless and a lot of mothers love what they do. But if your just wondering $160k a year is right. Thats a lot of money moms can be making if you were put a amount in it. :)
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• United States
14 May 07
Thanks for your reply. $160k per year still sounds a little low to me. Lloyd
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• Australia
15 May 07
This is fantasy land... No-ones earn 160K a year. How much are you paying her an hour? What's her qualifications? If someone was capable to earn 160K a year... they would either not have a child or pay someone to look after their child. If you add up the hours of the child being at school, sitting on the front of the television or playing games... her time spend with the child is about 4 hours a day. It is only during the first 5 years that she has to spend a lot of time with the child. What about all the working moms? They are the prime example that a child is not a full time job.
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@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
12 May 07
Hi Lloyd. I don't think anyone will be able to afford to pay me as a stay at home mom. The pay will change every second, minute or by the hour as we face old and new challenges each day. It's a lifetime job and well worth it (most times LOL):) Happy Mother's Day :)
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• United States
13 May 07
I just hope that people don't take for granted the challenges that all the mothers face each and every day. Lloyd
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@Aussies2007 (5336)
• Australia
14 May 07
I understand what you mean... 20 years of hard labour to bring up a child without pay... However... you need to remember that the woman choose to have a child... and should be fully aware of the consequences of her decision. She can only blame herself and nobody else. Even if she has the child by accident... it is still her mistake. Meanwhile... she is not the only one to contribute. Her husband is working to support her and the child. In Australia... it has been estimated that the cost of raising a child to age 20 is One million Australian dollars. That includes putting the child through private school and give it the best of everything. So no... the matter is not for discussion. You get a child because you want one. When you get a dog... you don't pay someone to look after it. Why would you pay someone to look after your child?
• United States
14 May 07
Thanks for presenting the first opposing position. I'm sure looking to what others think about it. Lloyd
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@kelly60 (4547)
• United States
15 May 07
It would be impossible to put a price on the value of a mother. Mothers are priceless because not only do they provide so many services to their family, but they also provide unconditional love.
• United States
17 May 07
"Priceless" is a word that has been used over and over again. And it fits the description perfectly. Lloyd
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@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
12 May 07
Hi Llyod, I don't think you could put a price tag on this one. Money wise, you would need many high paying jobs to even try and pay a small fraction of their services, not including the love that mother's give which are - free of charge.
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• United States
12 May 07
Hello Howard. Good to see you again. Just imagine the size of the staff you would need to replace mom. You'd need a cook, nanny, driver, nurse and much more. I agree with you. You can't put a price on this one. Lloyd
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@fpd1955 (2074)
• United States
13 May 07
All that my Mother did for me and my 5 siblings is indeed priceless. The best thing we can do is to pay it forward to our own children and to her, when she needs mothering in her elderly years. PEACE
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• United States
14 May 07
I would hope everyone would take care of their parents as they become elderly. Thanks for the reply. Lloyd
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• Kottayam, India
13 May 07
You cannot put a price for the service of Mother's role, I would say it's worth we cannot express it in words,for that you need to check our heartbeats.
• United States
14 May 07
Thanks for your reply. A Mother's love is priceless. Lloyd
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@4cuteboys (4099)
• United States
12 May 07
I can't imagine putting a price tag on being a mommy :) It's a great job, even when it's tough. But I did read online somewhere it adds up to about 150K a year. Too bad I can't get a job actually making that, lol!
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• United States
12 May 07
Hello and Happy Mother's day to you. We've had estimates running from $140,000 to $160,000 per year. At least people are beginning to respect the value of a good mother. Lloyd
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• Philippines
13 May 07
Hi, Happy Mother's Day to your mom. Today, May 13 is mother's day also here in the Philippines. We always celebrate mother's day in Philippines, it is very important to every Filipino to give thanks & gratitude to our mothers. Our mother is the light of our home. They are the one who take care of us since the they we were born. Dollars? Money? It is not necessary to show how much we need them. All they need is love, care and respect. Greeting them "Happy Mother's Day Mom" is enough to make feel that they are important.....
• United States
13 May 07
Thank you for your reply and I'd like to wish all the mothers in the Phillipines a Happy Mother's Day also. Lloyd
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• United States
16 May 07
I didn't have to think about this. It's explained in one word and that one word is PRICELESS!! :)
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• United States
17 May 07
"PRICELESS" seems to be the key word in regards to this discussion. Thanks, Lloyd
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@Idlewild (6090)
• United States
12 May 07
I wouldn't even know how to begin putting a dollar value on it. Looking at the cost of a nanny, driver, etc. doesn't begin to capture it because those people are just hired workers, whereas a mother truly cares and does it with love. I do know my mother was probably underpaid for putting up with all the crap I gave her growing up!
• United States
13 May 07
Now that I think about it, my mother also put up with a lot of crap from all of us too. There's no way you can put a dollar value on mothers. Lloyd
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@irisheyes (4370)
• United States
12 May 07
Lloyd, I think someone just researched this and came uyp with a price of $140,000 per year. I can't remember shere I read that but it was probably on line somewhere.
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• United States
12 May 07
Hello Irisheyes. Happy Mother's Day to you. $140,000 per year seems like minimum wage for al the things she has to do run the family. It would be nice if every Mother could be cut a check for $140,000 every year. Lloyd
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• Philippines
12 May 07
my mother is priceless. everything that she had done for me and the family is beyond the measure of money. we love her so much. so much so that this idea never ever came into the mind of anyone of us, her kids. until now, she maybe old, cranky, and whatever else, but our love for her remains. she is a treasure to have.
• United States
13 May 07
Many here at MyLot have mentioned how priceless mothers are. Your mother sounds like a special lady. Happy Mother's Day to both of you. Lloyd
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@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
13 May 07
my mother and I never get along for as long as I know. There are lots of heartache and communication problems between us. But my mother loves me with all her heart, and I always think of her and why things have to be so difficult between us. Until now we still don't communicate very well and it's been years I never go back home because we still save money. But for me there is no other mother and for her I am always her daughter.
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• United States
14 May 07
I'm sorry to hear about the relationship between you and your mother. I hope you can patch things up real soon. I hope you will get to go home soon and visit. Lloyd
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@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
13 May 07
she risked her life delivering me into this world so if my life had a value, that would be how much she is worth. I know my siblings would agree on this too, even if they also don't get along well with her
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@tsgirl01 (900)
• United States
17 May 07
Hello lloydanthony111, how are you tonight? Well, I read your discussion and all that came to mind was to advise you to listen to a song. Shirley Caesar said it best in her gospel song "No Charge." I hope you will search for the song and listen to it...it is one of my favorite songs. I'll even bet that you already are familiar with the song...please let me know...Nice discussion, take care...
• United States
17 May 07
Hello. Nice to see you again. Hope you've been well. One of the earliest responses to this discussion went like this. "Hi Lloyd. There's no way to measure the worth of a mother. Have you ever listened to the song by Shirley Ceaser called No Charge? Being a mother entails a lot of labor of love. It's the best source of giving and receiving love." Now I know I have to find that tune. It must be a great song to have 2 people recommend it. LLoyd
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@tsgirl01 (900)
• United States
17 May 07
Thanks for responding so quickly lloydanthony, I have been reading the responses and I did not see the one that you mention. Could you tell me the number of the post? "For the toys, food and clothes and for wiping your nose, there is no charge son...when you add it all up the real cost of my love is no charge. For the nights filled with dread and the worries ahead, there is no charge. For advise, food and knowledge and the cost of your college, no charge. The song begins with a little boy giving his Mom a list of what she should pay him for his chores around the house. I am listening to the song right now...For the 9 months I carried you, no charge. For the time and the tears and the cost through the years, no charge. I am just typing parts of the song, but I know the song for years...my children are 29 and 31 and they remember me playing the song...I also played the number that is in the song, 1475, that number I have hit in the lottery a few times over the years, and I always used some of it to buy some things for my children. I hope you get to hear the song soon, let me know if you like it. Take care...
• United States
17 May 07
The number of the post is 10. From what you've written, it sounds like a great song. I will do a search for it. Thanks. Lloyd
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@shylalex (13)
• India
13 May 07
Mother , the most touching word. The most touching person in each one's life.Mother is the one becoz of whom u and i are here on this beautiful earth. Mother is the one who is a friend, sister, brother, father, and is the one who adds every relation with us. She is the one. According to me why is a special day kept as Mothers Day it should be every day a MOTHER DAY.
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• United States
13 May 07
Thank you for that wonderful reply to this discussion. You are so right. Every day should be Mother's Day. Lloyd
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