Have you acheived in your life, what you have planned

India
May 12, 2007 12:35pm CST
Have u achieved in your life what you have preplanned. Is your life going on the track, as chosen by you. For example: 1) The School u wanted to study (during school days) 2) The course you wanted to pursue in your college. 3) Staying with the people you liked,Creating a good company of friends. 4) The job u wanted to go. 5) The person u wanted to marry. 6) Making extra bucks in part time. Ask for me, every thing till this second, will go against my wish, and i will adapt to, what was given to me. Becoz, I wanted to have a education in a good school, but lack of money made me continue study in a mediocore school. Secondly, i wanted to go for Engineering profession, but as i was found in the creamy layer( though not by monetory means)according to government norms,i failed to get admitted in engineering college,though i stood School First. Thirdly,those people i trusted as friends betrayed me at one point or another in my life, all for the selfishness.So i have a handful of friends.{ This was the situation before joining mylot, now my friends lists is ever expanding}Fourthly,After pursuing my postgraduation in physics, i got an interview in Baba Atomic Research Centre, Trombay, I cleared the first round, and somehow failed to clear the second round. I finally ended in a different job. Fifthly,I married a few years back, as arranged by my family members, and thought that atlast i had succeeded in getting a peaceful life, only to FIND my life in tantrums, when SHE DITICHED ME AND LEFT FOR EVER. Sixthly, i'm trying to do some simple online/offline jobs, like data entry,copy paste jobs, through Work From Home, opportunities for the past two years, Till now i'm yet to find one.
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@sukumar794 (5040)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
15 May 07
I don't believe that everyone would achieve what one wished to be in their life.Life is like that ...Man proposes and it is God who disposes. As for me, I dreamt of a medical profession in my early life ...as fate would have it , I switched over to Arts and Literature. I was an academician and a researcher for long years until I got my PhD. Later I joined the State govt, as one pursuing cultural writing and editing. All these things reveal that we are just puppets on a string in the hands of destiny.Thus whatever be the planning, only very rarely do you achieve your goal.
@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
13 May 07
Well to be honest my life at this moment is not even close to what I planned it to be...lol...Although I have graduated as a Releated Services Technician from with an emphasis in Special Education, I am currently unemployed and taking online classes for a degree in Juvenile Criminal Justice. I am not married, as a matter of fact, I am a single mom. When I was in high school I planned to become married, a mother, college graduate(+) and more successful than anyone else in my family.....unfortunatly, reality had stepped in and thing started to change rather quickly. I love my life & I wouldn't change a thing about it....I am still going to reacg my "goal" but it's just going to take me a little longer than expected...lol
@shak143 (1279)
• India
12 May 07
Hi sai venkat during my childhood i want to get study in a big school but it didn't happen and i want to enjoy with my freinds but as i grown up under my relatives so i couldn't do it.Literally say what i wish in my child hood i didn't get it. After that i wan't to be a engineer graduate which iam now but i didn't get the college which i wish to.It means here 50-50.I pused engineer in my favourate subject but not in my college. Now iam in search of jobs which iam nt getting.Iam still in reach of it. What ever you wish you won't get like that some times you will but it won't repeat.You have to get udjust what you get. as what we get i sprovided us by GOD and he knows better what is good for us and what is not.