My friend broke up with his gf and gf still wants him back...what should he do?
By r4y_m4n
@r4y_m4n (93)
United States
May 13, 2007 5:06pm CST
I have a friend that's still in High School and he's currently an 11th grade going to 12th grade this year, and he had a gf since 8th grade (so that's 4 yrs i guess)
and they usually break up and get back together...but the one who does the break up is my friend, and the ex gf keeps wanting him back so he gets back again together with her
because everytime my friend is the one that breaks up, the girlfriend always cries and cries...so it makes it seem like my friend is the bad guy because he's not crying
i mean he does feel sorry for her, it's just that...he doesn't feel happy with her
like he feels bored and trapped
and when he talks to this other girl (that he likes i guess) he feels like he's not bored
what should he do to his ex gf? the one that's "in love" with him i supose?
i mean he just doesn't feel anymore magic and she keeps wanting him to come back
1 response
@innechen (1318)
• Indonesia
14 May 07
i know that ur friend are in a hard situation, but if he didnt feel the chemistry with his ex anymore then why is he force himself to get back together again? what he should do is explain to his ex why he want to break up all a long and if she promise to change he could give her last chance, but if ur friend think enough is enough then he should be able to stop this before its getting worse.so when times come she could heal her broken heart and continue life while your friend also have to do this
@r4y_m4n (93)
• United States
15 May 07
i think my friend has alrdy tried explaining to her...but she's the type of person that's "in love" with a person and won't back down until she gets what she wants
haha...today, me, my friend (1 that broke up) and one that didn't [total of 3 ppl] were talking in a group, then the ex comes to say "hi" and "i'll tell you later" to my other friend (the one that's not involved in the relationship)
haha...i think she was trying to make her ex jealous by being friends with his friend
