How do you handle a difficult teacher?
By Scott
@callarse1 (4783)
United States
May 13, 2007 5:29pm CST
Sometimes we have a difficult teacher that we don't know what to do. I will give you some examples. The teacher gives you an assignment such as writing about a hobby that you like to do, you go to the teacher with a rough draft and she says she loves it and thinks it's very good. However, when you turn the paper into her, you get a 7.5 out of 10 (B- or so). You go to her and she says "you didn't follow the instructions of the assignment".
Second example, the teacher allows you to write a movie review, you choose to write about a movie that is pretty controversial. She doesn't like your topic so decides to give it a lower grade.
Third example, due to medical issues that you have you miss many classes, the teacher gets a VERY bad attitude and tells you "you must come to MY class and NEVER miss a class EVER." Obviously, sometimes medical issues do come up and there are people that do have medical issues that cannot be cured.
Questions: How can we deal with these difficult teachers? Should we try to avoid taking their classes? Should we protest to the director/principal/department head/Dean?
I have witnessed those examples in my schooling before and it makes me not like the teacher. In example one, it happened to me. The teacher was loving my rough draft and made me believe I would get around 9 or 10 (A grade), but when I turned in the final copy (very similar content to rough draft with additions, grammar corrections and moving sentences, just the normal stuff we do when we edit an essay), she gave me that grade.
The second example applies to me as well. The teacher said we could write about ANY movie. I chose a controversial movie: "Y Tú Mamá También", it is a movie from Mexico. It was banned from a few countries. I think she didn't like the movie and in turn gave me a lower grade than I should get.
The third example, I witnessed with other students. They had some medical conditions and the teacher made a big deal in class. In fact, I saw that she treated these students differently! I thought it was unfair, and at the time I didn't realize I had the RIGHT to complain to the Dean or Department head of the university. That type of behavior is unacceptable to treat students that way.
I can't wait to see what you all have to say.
Pablo
3 responses
@tipsntricks (215)
• India
14 May 07
I think that the teacher doesn't understand the students well. It should be good if you go point out what you feel about her in a private discussion with her. If you think that increases her hatred towards you students, you should take an appointment with her and let her know what you feel so that she can correct it. If she's still not accepting her mistakes, I think you should let the Department head know about it. I think that will work out well for you ! We have experienced teachers of the same sort in the past and we had complained about them to the head. Once we complained, the teacher became less strict and was good to the students.
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@callarse1 (4783)
• United States
15 May 07
Well, it is in the past now so I can't do it, but I definitely would now in the present or in the future. I don't think I should have to put up with that especially if I am paying for the class, right?
Unfortunately, my friend (in the example I was writing) DID complain to the Department head and the teacher treated her worse. She was missing a lot of class (about once a week for her class that was two times a week). She was trying to get the teacher to work with her, but the teacher was having an attitude with her. My friend said the teacher slammed my friend's papers on the desk so loud. Basically, she had to drop the class because of the teacher. Now, I understand if she wasn't willing to make all the work up or she was missing every class, but she wasn't. I don't think the teacher was understanding and the teacher go very angry when she went to the Department to complain.
Pablo
@callarse1 (4783)
• United States
21 May 07
Yea, I have only had about six or so bad teachers throughout school. Actually, I think it is sad when a teacher doesn't treat students fairly, but it happens. Thank you for replying again.
@tipsntricks (215)
• India
16 May 07
Oh ! That's too bad on the teacher's part. He/she doesn't have proper ethics. That's too rude ! I wish that you have better teachers now. :)
And that story of your friend is very sad :(
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@callarse1 (4783)
• United States
14 May 07
Yes, some teachers want the best from us, you are right about that. Sometimes the attitude of the person (teacher and student) can change the relationship very much.
Pablo
@callarse1 (4783)
• United States
15 May 07
Carri, yea I can see what you are saying about that because that is what I meaning, a teacher that treats the students with more needs "different" like "I hate you", I think you understand me about that :).
@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
13 May 07
Well I would ask for specific thing that she felt were wrong. If you don't know what was wrong, you can't correct it and you have a right to know this.
If the comments were not specific get them clarified.
As for the medical conditions, if a student is not in class, they can not learn. Many instructors have attendence requirements and this is acceptable. If the teacher is making this a public issue, that does seem to violate the rights of the students and they should have complained.
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@callarse1 (4783)
• United States
14 May 07
Thanks for that, yes, let me say that when I tried to go to them about the comments they don't really say anything about it.
As for the students, I agree that they can't learn if they aren't here but if the student has an illness where they can't be in class then the student and teacher should work something out, right? It shouldn't be announced to the class or we shouldn't be able to see that the teacher hates that particular student :(.
Pablo





