Why is it a lot of members don't

@crazy1 (479)
New Zealand
May 15, 2007 11:39am CST
respond to discussions they start.? I've been in to a number of discussions over the last few days and couldn't find a response from the discussion starter, even though the discussion was 3 or 4 days old. I think its only right that if people take the time to respond to a discussion, its only right the discussion starter should make a few replies, to me its just good manners and acknowledges the contributers efforts in putting in a response. Whats your thoughts,? do you aggree or dissaggree.?
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9 responses
• United States
20 May 07
I think it's because some are here to start discussions & post responses. It seems that the rumor is that's what generates the maximum amount of cash. If people knew that they usually do get credited for "comments" - leaving a reply to a response, they might do so more often. I am certain that the responses are read by the author of the original discussion. If any one of them are like me, either they just don't have an answer or whatever answers they can think of, they just cannot put it into words.
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• United States
20 May 07
Well - as a courtesy, the discussion starter can comment, "Thanks for your response" but that is against the MyLot rules to do that. The comment must have a lot more substance than that.
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@crazy1 (479)
• New Zealand
20 May 07
But to leave no responses at all in a discussion they took the time to start.?
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@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
27 May 07
I try to most of the time, sometimes I do slack off and don't bother but you are right, it's rude not too. I was actually told from when I joined 4 months ago that 'thanking' people was against mylot rules. So I do try to say more than just 'thank you' but sometimes even that is hard LOL
@crazy1 (479)
• New Zealand
24 Nov 07
I like to acknowledge that a persons taken the time to respond, saying something in return is only fair and polite I think.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
18 May 07
Well, I may not always get to my discussions I start right away, but I do go in and try to respond back to anyone who responds to any of my discussions. I also then go in and check out one of their Discussions that they have started and try to respond to something I am interested in as well. I feel that is should be important especially when a person chooses to discuss something, to go in and read and respond back to the people who post there so you can see how others relate with you as a whole. Maybe not all people see it this way, and they never post that a person should respond back to anything they start, so maybe that could be part of the reason here as well.
@crazy1 (479)
• New Zealand
18 May 07
I guess I think a ptoper discusion needs the discussion starter to help make it a proper discussion.
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@marlyse (1056)
• Switzerland
18 May 07
i thought of that too, but when i see they have so many answers, its just really hard to answer. and some replies are not worth it. but i agree, a discussion is with talking in both ways. what i dont like is, when they start a good thread, but do not explain what they think or why they started it. and lots of people start one after another to get more money. now i go occasonally to my answers and look for the replies, except for the friends im sure dhey answer
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@crazy1 (479)
• New Zealand
18 May 07
I think theres people here that're more interested in money making, so they get busy making new discussions, and then don't have time to respond to the discussions they've started. Maybe they should be making less new dicussions and better quality ones, ones they've put a few responses in.
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• United Arab Emirates
19 May 07
You can check my discussions to see that I always concern on responding for comments made for my dicussions by other users. I found it like you a good manner to be done.
@crazy1 (479)
• New Zealand
20 May 07
Thanks, I aggree about the good manners.
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• India
15 May 07
Rani Mukherjee - Rani Mukherjee is a nice actress.
discussions of 3-4 days old does not mean that those wil get responses. Responses totally depend on the importance of your discussions
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@crazy1 (479)
• New Zealand
15 May 07
I'm talking about discussions with upwards of 30 or 40 replies, and the discussion starter hasn't been back to add further comments etc.
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@petspets (476)
• Antarctica
16 May 07
I agree with what you say. But I believe the discussion starter probably run out of different ways to comment on the many responses. Also some are out to make money by posting many discussions and hardly make a comment to the responses. They have no time to waste on replies that do not generate cents for them. Some may genuinely have a lack of time to response to the many comments to their discussions.
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@crazy1 (479)
• New Zealand
16 May 07
I think it's a courtesy to at least make a few replies in one of their discussions, after all, people have made the effort to reply as best they can, so a few good manners would be good, and it'd make the discussion better. I wonder if people have got so money hungry their good manners have been thrown out the window.?
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• United States
30 May 07
Definitely agree with you. I take the time to see what kind of responses I have on my discussions and if it warrants a response to theirs than I respond. Keep in mind mylot doesn't want you saying thank you for whatever reason they have. It is supposed to be a true quality response. I try to always go back and look at the responses I have gotten. It is as you say good manners and shows the responder that you appreciate him taking the time to respond to your discussion.
• United States
15 May 07
I think it's probably because it says in the rules not to thank everyone for their comment but that doesn't mean they couldn't respond to a few. I also think its good manners, isn't that why they are called discussions, so you can discuss the topic?
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@crazy1 (479)
• New Zealand
15 May 07
I think its not much of a discussion if all there is is peoples opinions, and the discussion starter not defending what they've started a discussion with. More often than not I won't post, as I like a good discussion, and not having the topic starters replies can make it a bit of a boring discussion for me.
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