Does being virgin still matter in a relation?

It used to matter to me but I guess since my outlook on life has changed, it doesn't really matter anymore as long as you love your partner and is reciprocated.

so you are a kind man !

It shouldn't matter. No one should be held accountable for past relationships when in a new relationship. I gotta know tho, were you a virgin when you met your girlfriend? What's good for the gander is equally good for the goose.

I think in todays world it doesnt matter if your a virgin or not and that shows you we have come along way. Back in the days it used to be really important and everyone wanted to marry a virgin because she was labeled "pure" or innocent but all that has changed as did peoples morals. It wouldnt be a factor in my life if I met someone and he wasnt a virgin..that doesnt matter at all.

I don't think it matters anymore. Nowadays we all have several partners during our lives, so it would really suck if no-one after the first would want me anymore. :D

No, virginity shouldn't be an issue in a relationship. Its love that matters, right? And you should accept your partner and whatever his/her past is.

Everytime I encounter this subject I am reminded of a friend of mine who went overseas. WEnt to the USA and found himself a new girl. I remember this because he couldn't stop bragging about how he found a 27-year old virgin from the USA. - to reading Americans, in ASia, we think of the USA as the place of promiscuity. Anyway, she came into town and turned out to be the type of girl that few would have wanted to touch.

well dont know exactly coz me also a virgin..and waiting for some one to take my virgnity... hahahaha.. but i think a bit experienced partner is good in ur first time.. so any experienced lady

i dont think it should matter. the important thing is that they dont go cheating behind backs when they're in a relationship.

it does matter if she losses her virginity when she is married to u and u r not able to satisfy and if she looses with someone else

I'm an adult with a child and I don't expect men my age to still be a virgin. It's almost unheard of in this day and age. Of course, I don't want a man thats been with 100 different women but I prefer to leave the past in the past and as long as we wrap it up to prevent STD's and pregnancy then all is good.

i see that but it is still a gift better to be given to a long term partner like being married