Is it really hard to forget your first love?

@subha12 (18441)
India
May 16, 2007 1:17am CST
I have heard this from my friends. One had a break up. He was telling that he can't forget her ever whoever comes into his life. Because you can't forget the first love in life. May be he is right. Is it only the first love or say u had a break up, then again u had a relationship and agaiin u break up. Will u end up in remembering two of these or the first one? I want to know your honest opinion.
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10 responses
@rkrish (3003)
• India
11 Sep 08
Its always tought to forget any people and relationship we had in life...even i cant forget mylot thou' i stop mylotting my friends here...so i believe and experienced i cant forget any of my earlier relationship as well.
@rkrish (3003)
• India
11 Sep 08
one liner... People can try to change the perception of seeing the old relationship but not forgetting the relationship.....ex say they can call them as friend now who was earlier lover
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
Having your first love is the most unforgetable moment in your time. Thats the start when a boy becomes a man. You learn to love, you learn to care, you learn to sacrifice and all that you see is heaven when shes with you. You try to experience most situation that is first time to overcome. A lot of memories you will remember as your relationship getting stronger. And if you fail. Next you know what to do. Sometimes first time becomes forever. If your one of it then your a lucky guy.
@Kindia (14)
• China
11 Sep 08
i'm not sure whether my first love was a real love. i even didn't want to touch her hand. i only wanted to protect her, do my best to make her happy. i thought she is my angel, is the most perfect on earth, is the reason for my life. now i'm sure it is a true love, but i'm not sure whether it is a real love.
@koolros (24)
• Philippines
17 May 07
remembering first love...i know all of us agree with me..you will never ever forget first love this is a time that you feel he/she is your lifetime partner..in may case my first love always stock in my mind because she is my mentor,my crying shoulder everything but i wondering why first love is not keep us forver partner..maybe she is not my lovenet..
@yadav8797 (1211)
• India
29 Aug 08
yah. i am totally agree that first love is unforgettable for whole life. i have the experience about this. i never forget my first love till today.but the regrett in my mind is that i never confess my love. i don't know her feeling. if i find her then i really confess her. i miss my love very much. i am finding my love here to there. i find her one day. the first love is laways unforgettable
• China
11 Sep 08
Yes,I guess so. To forget the first love is like denying the begining of our adult life( of course I'm referring to those real first love in most cases, which leaves out the unmature admiration among kids). The first love is usually beautiful and passionate at first because we would use all our energy and imagination, but usually sad in ending because we can't understand what love would cost. When the ending part comes, it's usually painful but it will always be hidden in the deepest part of our lives. So, I can't agree with you more. Happy day.
• India
10 Sep 08
hi buddy.. being true to my heart i can say that its not at all hard to forget our first road.. it is impossible to forget our first love.. more over i can say that the best way for remembering a person is trying to forget that person.. i never taken that clever decision yet.. happy mylotting
@sunny5u (2069)
• India
16 May 07
Ya,what u said is correct.It is very tough to forget first love,everyone has a feel of love,some break and some become success.No,person in life will not forget his lover after his marriage with some other also,that is only feel in the heart.I absolutely agree with u.
@subathra (3519)
• India
16 May 07
If so happens, for me i will always remmeber all the bitter breaks up in my life till end.I think its applicable to most people and its not the first love alone that cant be forgotton.Its for whatever relationships that breaks up, remains in our mind and heart forever.
@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
16 May 07
It all depends on how much you have loved and how hurt you are. The first love is hard to remember because it is the first attempt, and many people remember the first time they do anything. If you are referring to several breakups in a relationship, I would think that what the person remembered is actually the breakup and not the person. They are 2 different issues which are easily messed up when the mind is clogged :P
@paigegal (438)
• United States
16 May 07
Hmm.. I'm not really sure about this. My first love is really the PURE type. We didn't even hold hand or hug. Haha.. Sounds stupid? We don't really have many memories, however, it is still a sweet memory for me. Can't forget that kind of feeling. A PURE LOVE.