why is love so painful

@fazelath (1174)
India
May 17, 2007 12:05am CST
Why is love so painful ? When u are in love it pains and when u are out of love then too it pains,why is this pain in love
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@salam1 (1474)
• Malaysia
17 May 07
Love is painful when a person loves a wrong thing, I meant a thing that will not last. If a woman loves a man, then the man will grow old and die which are hurt. If a person loves his job then the job will bore him after several years or maybe months, then again it hurts. If a person loves 'something' that last forever, and keep 'His' promises everytime, and give 'His' bounty as 'He' has nothing to loose; then the person will enjoy the sweetness of the rela love! I bet you know who to love, fazelath my friend!
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@fazelath (1174)
• India
18 May 07
thanks, thank u very much for you sharing your good thoughts
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@salam1 (1474)
• Malaysia
18 May 07
Who do you think 'He" is ?
@fazelath (1174)
• India
18 May 07
well,he was,but now he has become ex
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@rb200406 (1825)
• India
17 May 07
love can be pianful when you are in love with a wrong person.In my opinion love is a fulfilling experience if you rae in love with a right person.Love will hurt if you are out of it.Thats natural but it is good to be out of love with a wrong person.You will be hurt for short period than you will be again happy.so it is continous process as long as uou don't find the correct person to fall in love.
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@fazelath (1174)
• India
17 May 07
thanks for your response,it's really very true,
@gscs1838 (1536)
• Malaysia
17 May 07
it hurts because when some of us really do love someone, we give it our all; our mind, body, spirit, etc. nothing is wrong with that. if this guy can't see that in you, he's not worth having you. Unless the mistake you made is that bad. in all seriousness, leave him alone. Like everything, getting over someone takes time. i will tell you one thing from my experience, have some dignity and move on if everything you've tried isn't working. there may be something better in store for you. Or you can go by the saying that if you love something set it free
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@fazelath (1174)
• India
17 May 07
thank u for your response and sharing your good thoughts
@stdrst (471)
• Bulgaria
17 May 07
I can't tell you why. It is life. But if it is true love and if you are with the one you love it won't be painful. Of course, there is not perfect relationship so sometimes it will be painful again.
@fazelath (1174)
• India
17 May 07
i think you are right,thanks for your response
• Malaysia
18 May 07
although being in love sometimes gives us problem but those problems, we gotta face them. it gives us strength and by learning through our problems and mistakes and the way we deal with them, it makes us wiser and let us grow. although love is painful, don't avoid it. if you do, then it means that you have avoided one of the greatest opportunity to grow. love will teach you that life is not meaningless, it will let you know that the world, despite all the sufferings, is a wonderful place to be in. although things might not go smoothly when you're in love, but have hope and faith..remember that there's a rainbow behind every dark cloud. don't give up and just gotta be strong:)