If it were your mother, how would you feel?
May 17, 2007 11:05pm CST
My mother is a heart patient and is in and out of the hospital quite often. Evrytime she goes, it is a noraml 2-3 week stay.It isn't her fault and I don't blame her health for anything. I love my mother with all my heart and it just gets my panties in a big twist when my siblings act so pompous.My mother took care of us all these years and I fell that now it is our turn to take care of her. I will not put her in a nursing home, it ain't happening.She lives with me and my family and I try to spend as much time with her as I possibly can and I am not complaining.My mother is precious and I only have one mother and when she is gone, I can't her back and I can't get a new one.My siblings on the other hand grunt and moan if you even ask them to sit at the hospital with their own mother for more than an hour. They usually run out before mother comes out of surgery but yet they will call and ask me what's up or what did the doc say. I am fed up with my siblings and their behavior.I am going to be at the hospital with my mother as much as possible and they know that but you would think that they would have enough respect for her to come visit with her but they don't.My mom is in the hospital now going on her fifth and a half week and my siblings have showed up a few times but not enough to write home and brag about it. What would you do? How would you handle it?