The most complicated factor of a woman

Indonesia
May 18, 2007 8:11am CST
Many says woman are complicated. I realizes it is true.. my ex bf said that I am complicated. I change my mind too often and have a never ending questions.. how do I change this? That things just happen depends on my mood? What do you boys think? Women are most welcome for opinion..
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@angelicEmu (1311)
18 May 07
Tired and emotional - Feelings, woaaa feelings!
There's a difference between being complicated, and being swept along by your mood! All human beings are complicated, and any man who thinks that women shouldn't be, obviously doesn't think that women are human beings, and doesn't want a girlfriend - he wants a blow-up doll! If you're talking about letting your moods rule your life though, that's a different matter. Hormones and emotions can be a pretty powerful thing, but they're only a part of you - what you think counts as well as what you feel. And if you don't want to be governed by your moods, you need to take time to think, evaluate and be honest with yourself about who you are, and the decisions you make in your life, otherwise you won't learn from your mistakes, or grow as a person. Part of being an adult, and growing as an individual, is learning to balance your feelings with your thoughts. Feelings and moods tend to be a reaction to what's going on inside and around you, and are a good indicator of what you need to think about and make decisions on. Following your feelings and instincts without thought, is like letting yourself be blown about in the wind. Your instincts may often be right, but that doesn't mean that you don't need to think too. It's all a case of balance.
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18 May 07
By the way, being indecisive and changing your mind can be because of one of two things - 1. You're being swept along by your emotions, or 2. The circumstances have changed or your understanding of a situation has increased and you're being adaptable. Being flexible and learning isn't indecision, and rigidity isn't strength. Only you know which of the two is the reason for your changing your mind about things. Thinking them through beforehand can't hurt though...
@latsmom (824)
18 May 07
I think that if you try and change who you are you will find happiness in the short term but by trying to become something that you are not would in the end surely make you unhappy and like pulling in your somach in order to look good in a nice dress or tight top you can only do it for so long without feeling uncomfortable. I personally think that your ex was not right for you and that if you continue to be true to yourself and be the special person you are that you will find someone who appreciates you without you aving to change any of the amazing personal qualities we all as humans have. I was in a relationsip for 8 years and the guy I was with always tries to change me, to make me quieter, change how I dress, change my personality, and I tried so hard I really did but ultimately I was extreemly unhappy and had to break away from the relationship and have now spent the past 2 years single in order to find myself again. Never lose your identity. It is what makes you different to everyone else in this world. Wait for that special person who deserves and truly loves you for who you really are.
• India
18 May 07
I dont find any conplication with women.If you are talking about the mood,it varies individuals to individuals.It is human nature.
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• Indonesia
18 May 07
I agree that you are complicated..hehehe LOL.. I know really well how you change your mind only in seconds.. That never ending questions, I feel like I am good at it too.. My questions can continues until I found the answer that satisfy me.. but that's woman insting I guess... it makes us unique.. :P
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