I REALLY miss him

@mssnow (9484)
United States
May 18, 2007 10:39am CST
There is a guy who used to come to Mylot everyday. He would always answer my discussions. He made me laugh and smile and we used to flirt and have fun. Made people would wonder about us. But he got mad at mylot and left. They kept taking away his points. It is very hard for me to even get into discussions anymore, because I know he's not here. I would look forward to seeing his wonderful smiles.If there was anyway possible to get him to come back I would. I know some of you guys know, who he is. But I don't want to name names. If you ask me in private I will tell you. I have tried hard to get him to come back but he is stubborn and wont. Maybe if i can get the help of other mylotters to encourage him to come back. He might. I know he still reads the topics. Just let him know you miss him too. He had a lot of friends and was very popular here. But to me he was and still is VERY special. I miss you, sweetie. :(
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@aprilgrl (4460)
• United States
18 May 07
I think I know who you are talking about. Here lately all my friends are not posting anything because of whats happening to them (the points taken away) I look forward to see my friends discussions and lately it's getting slow here and some are leaving mylot and it's sad :(
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
18 May 07
Yes, it is sad. Mylot is gonna end up losing all their loyal people because of losing points. Its ridiculous. Thanks april.
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
18 May 07
Yeah it seems to be the ones who have the most posts. funny how that works.
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
18 May 07
mssnow,exactly,i have read alot of posts about lossing points in the past few days,they are all the users above 5000 posts,i think mylot do not care to loss them now since they have 90000 members,but we hope to have an explanation.
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• United States
18 May 07
he seems like a really nice guy =) It sounds like you still get to talk to him though. Which is good. Maybe you will eventually get him to come back. Maybe you can explain to him how much you miss him and maybe he will change his mind. Good luck!
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
18 May 07
I have tried thats why I posted here lol hopefully it will help lol
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• United States
19 May 07
So you dont have his email address or anything like that? Instant messenger screen name? Maybe theres another way you can get a hold of him like someone else mentioned.
• Canada
18 May 07
Yeah, some people just don't understand how special on-line friends can be. Just because a person uses a computer or a telephone to communicate rather than meeting people face to face, doesn't make the friendship any less special. I know how you feel.
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
18 May 07
Thanks, It can be hard when you se someone everyday and then they just up and leave.
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• Singapore
18 May 07
You mean wolfie? I didn't know that's why he left. I thought it's because of his depression. Something I perfectly understand.
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
18 May 07
Yes Lord. you got it. That was part of it. but not all of it. I understand too, but he must know that he has people who miss him. Hopefully he will feel better soon and come back to us.
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
18 May 07
I just wanted you to know that I do know how he feels. I have accepted it. But thanks :)
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• Singapore
18 May 07
Have you ever had depression? I don't think you ever had so you won't know.. unless, you will know. It is perfectly logical and understandable he is staying away...
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
18 May 07
Hello,mssnow,I know who you are talking about now,and i remembered you told me something before but i think i cannot say here. I think he had just passed a benchmark few days ago but had been pulled down again. Although I have not always replies to him but I have read his posts sometimes,anyway,it will be a loss to anyone in mylot if he left.
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
18 May 07
Yes, and thanks for not saying. lol. Hes such a wonderful person. I miss any friend who leaves but certain ones like him are just really hard to take not being here.
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@mummymo (23706)
18 May 07
I am pretty sure I know who you mean and if I am right he will come back when he is ready! He knows how much he is loved and missed and maybe he just needs a little bit of time and space! Hopefully he is almost ready to return to those of us who love and miss him and will be welcomed back with open arms! xxxx
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
18 May 07
Yes, my friend . I know you and he are close too. You have known him longer than i have. But in the short time I have gotten to know him. I have grown very fond of him. I hope he does return soon. Thanks xxx
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
18 May 07
Thanks :)xxx
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@mummymo (23706)
18 May 07
he really is a very special man and I do think the world of him and I miss him heaps! I agree with you that I really wan t him back as well , I understand how you feel but I am sure he will return when he feels that he can! If you need to talk just shout out honey! xxx
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@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
19 May 07
Awww thats so sweet but I dont know who it is.LOL I like when someone makes me laugh on here. Thats the way it should be. Well you never know he just might come back one day. Never give up.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
19 May 07
Thanks for telling me and yes I know wolfie. I think he will come back.
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
19 May 07
Ive already told people guess i can tell you too. its my dear dear sweet wolfie. Please come back to us
@emskoneko (805)
• United States
19 May 07
He sounds like a good guy. It would be nice to have him back. I miss many of my old internet friends who have slipped away. Keep trying so you will have nothing to regret!
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
19 May 07
I wont give up until he tells me too
@yanjiaren (9031)
20 May 07
OH SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR FRIEND. THAT IS SAD. I DO HOPE HE COMES BACK. i KNOW WE GET POINTS TAKEN OFF, BUT i AM STILL PLUGGING AWAY AND HOPE THAT I CAN CONTINUE TO CONTRIBUTE MY MADNESS TO mYLOT LOL. iF YOU WANT A VIRTUAL SHOULDER TO CRY ON, YOUR MAD GREEK sister is here. I can't drink Guinness because I can't hold the drink down lol, but I will share in your troubles. I WONDER WHAT HE WILL SAY WHEN HE SEES SO MUCH SUPPORT FOR HIM HERE. i HOPE HE COMES BACK TO YOU, I MISS SOME OF MY OLD FRIENDS THAT HAVE LEFT. I don't know why they left though.
@yanjiaren (9031)
20 May 07
That's great, shame he isn't Mylotting though..
• Canada
19 May 07
Well Mssnow, It sounds like you have somewhat a broken heart. It's always a good thing if someone you know or don't.. can put a smile on your face. It's heart warming that the two of you found comfort together. Sure some of your conversing may have seemed a little too steamy.. of course you have to remember this is a public forum... hosting/ catering to 93,000 and climbing.
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• Canada
19 May 07
your quite welcome!
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
19 May 07
naw they wernt steamy at all. just fun. Maybe my heart is broken. but only because he has chosen not to come back. Thanks for your response.
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
19 May 07
I don't know who that is but someone said it's wolfie. he hasn't been here for some time but then I saw him back posting here then he's gone again. I joined another site for one day and then somehow I wasn't able to log in there again, but I saw his ID on this site too. Maybe that's where he is now. Ooh wow sounds romantic, the special wolfie :) waiting for your messages hehehe you can add comments on his profile too, I mean bubbly love letters :)
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@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
19 May 07
I think it's paidforum. I could only join for one day then never be able to login again so I don't care about it anymore. I see some other mylotters there too but now I forget which ones.
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
19 May 07
I think i know which one. Thanks :)
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
19 May 07
Yep it is wolfie mel. What other site?
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• Canada
18 May 07
Hi Snow, I am sorry that you are missing your friend like crazy, I'm pretty sure I know who it is and I agree he is a great guy. If your listening I know it can get frusterating to have points taken away, but what about the friends you have made? The decision is yours but please please please come back! If he choses not to come back however he will be greatly missed :(
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
18 May 07
he already is lol.I do feel for him but he doesn't understand how he is affect others by staying away. I will not give up on him. I told him that.
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• Canada
18 May 07
Maybe my begging and pleading will work! I said the majic word 3 times so that's got to count for something *giggles*. Glad to hear you won't give up on him and niether will we. He HAS to come back!
• Malaysia
19 May 07
Ms snow, try add him into your MSN or Yahoo messenger, then both of you still keep in touch closely even though he is not on MYLOT. Or pay him a surprise visit!
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
19 May 07
I have tried so far he doesnt have it
• China
19 May 07
After reading your message above,I'm deeply moved.Your feeling at the moment is understandable.It's lucky for you to have such a bosom friend.This is another kind of love which ever can be seen in the romantic love stories. Well,everyone has a fantastic forest in his heart,which include nice princess or handsome prince.Maybe he is just the one you are always seeking for in your spirit world.Come on! I believe that he will come back again when he's ready to appear as long as he cares about you.Best wishes for you :)!
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
20 May 07
That could possibly be *wink* thanks
@magica (3707)
• Bulgaria
19 May 07
This sounds so sweety and exciting indeed... Your own world here in MyLot, and somebody very special...This is romantic story and it was a pleasure for me too read it even with the sad final. Dont be upset, you still have your boy, i am sure that both of you have other forms of contact too. But of course, it`s different...
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
19 May 07
wel I am the romantic lol. But he really doesnt keep in touch much
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
18 May 07
Aww, that is really sweet, I wish that he will come back and save your day. There have been alot of great people that has left mylot, some come back and some move on to other things. I do hope that he will be back and make u smile again =)
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
18 May 07
Thanks alot me too. This frown looks so awful on me lol
@marlyse (1056)
• Switzerland
19 May 07
i miss him too mssnow. his wonderful discussions, your flirting was always funny to read and it made my days. i understand why he keeps quiet at this moment, but i do really hope he comes back. its not the same place without him. so please wolfie, when you feel ok, please come back to your friends, especially to mssnow. you are much missed
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
19 May 07
Im so glad we made others smiles as well That makes this place even better. I sure hope wolfie reads this and thinks about coming back if not for me. For everyone who loves him although no one loves him as much as i do lol
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@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
19 May 07
Hi mssnow. At first, I have no idea whom you are talking about. But as I scroll down, I saw his name. He is also my friend here. Just yesterday, It occurred to me that I haven't seen nor heard from him for the past few days. Nevertheless, I had closely partook in some of his last few threads. I can understand why he was upset about losing points. This is for your friend: I hope he can read this message. You better come back and respond to all my threads, LOL! Seriously, I like you to know that a lot of my friends are losing their points too. I'm not even exempted. There are many bizarre things going on around mylot lately. I admit I'm slowly losing my touch too and had stopped looking and counting at my points. It is only because of my friends that I'm still hanging on. You are entitled to be upset about this whole crap. I beg you though to think twice about the friends you left here. A lot of us are missing you already.
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
19 May 07
He reads the messages he just inst posting. I too lost about 50 points. was at over 2200 and now im back down. I just want to make payout. Which I might not do if they keep taking away points. its weird. Thanks I am sure he will read these and hopefully it will help.
@sweetsue (758)
• Philippines
19 May 07
Too bad, I hope he will hear your misery and will decide to come back to mylot again. I know mylottians would not want to loose wonderful people here.
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
19 May 07
Yeah its hard when you have someone so close to you
18 May 07
I dont know who you are talking about even if you told me i still would not know who you were talking about,but i hope your friend comes back real soon.
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
18 May 07
Its ok, if you ever met him you would know. he is one of a kind.