The things that cause tension at home
By kadangodan37
@kadangodan37 (34)
India
May 18, 2007 10:16pm CST
When I just think over it, I have found that the majority of the quarrels that I have with my wife are on silly matters.Mostly if the target is myself, it will be for keeping some thing where it should not be kept. The socks left near the couch, will be starting point. If either or both wanted, it will get converted into a big fight..........I will find fault with my wife for the way she tells things. Like commands or complaints...........What is your experience?
1 response
@vivekthemaster (413)
• India
19 May 07
Well I am still unmarried, but quarrels are there in every home. You should try not to quarrel on little matters and try to discuss the problem sitting together.
@kadangodan37 (34)
• India
20 May 07
As was said quarrels start on small things. If there is mutual understanding and regard, the differences can be sorted out and it is ideal. The familiarity between the couples, may breed contempt and produce ego issues.
Even though you are not married, if you have opportunity to observe the mutual behavior of couples married for more than five years, you will observe this basic fact.
If there is material and/or emotional dependance between the couples, the quarrel,if it errupts, will amicably end.
