Why do some people fail to manage the relationship,they build and fall apart?

India
May 19, 2007 3:10am CST
Building a relationship takes a long time and involves a great deal of care and effort.However,managing and sustaining it needs much more skill and care. With passage of time,many people find it a daunting task to mange the existing relationship and look for newer avenues.Why do the relationships break apart? How can one effectively manage and maintain the relationship and lead a happy life?
2 responses
mirchandani
@mirchandani (5)
• India
19 May 07
Hi! Narayan Good Point. A person fail to manage or maitian relationship will be bcoz he will be boerd or u can say while building a relationship his he was not clear, or just for a sake he made a relation. In this BUSY LIFE a person can't make a time for himself he is runing from Pillar to Post for everything. So he never take a time or initative to built or maintian his relation with his Friends,Family members, neighbour. One thing is clear if any body in this WORLD says that he is very Busy, he/her dont get time to talk to friend or relative, I think they are the BIGGEST LIER in the world. they will be the most unemployed person. We a person is having 24 hr in a day. I think every one travel from office to work and vise-versa. WHY that busy person call his/her friends,relative etc while traveling, Can't they?WORLD IS VERY SMALL, ITS U TO DECIDE HOw TO MANAGE A RELATIONSHIP.
narayan sahoo
@narayan2006 (2954)
• India
19 May 07
Many thanks for nicely responding and sharing your thoughts.We are truely all busy in our work and professional life. But busy schedule of work should not affect relationship. It is lack of mutual trust,understanding and respect that spols relationship. People often act and behave in an undesirable, egoistic and indivdualistic manner. I do appreciate your comments.
magica
@magica (3707)
• Bulgaria
19 May 07
There are no recipes because every relation is unique. But all of us need to keep the trust between us and our partner. And to respect his/her freedom. Not to bound him/her and to load the relation with too great expectations. Theese are just some of the hints.
narayan sahoo
@narayan2006 (2954)
• India
19 May 07
Many thanks for nicely responding and sharing your thoughts.Mutual trust,understanding and respect are positively the basic ingredients for building and maintaining relationship. I agree with you fully.In reality,human beings have a tendency to often act and behave differently,to fulfil his/her individual ego and desire,remaining indifferent to collective and committed goal, in a relationship.As a result of our undesirable and indivisualistic behaviour,our relationship suffer.