Do you give your Child a Cellphone?

child with cell phone - I want to give my child a cell phone.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
Philippines
May 19, 2007 5:32am CST
Is there any rules or etiquette you teach tehm on how to handle and to use a cellphone? I decided to let my kids have a cellphone, but I'm serious they use them not only responsibly but also politely. Any suggestion my fellow Mothers coz we all want best for our children and we don't want them to get into troubles. Thanks.
7 responses
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
19 May 07
When I was working full time and a single mom, my daughter did have a cell phone to keep in constant contact with me. I did not feel comfortable otherwise. Someone stole her cell phone and I just took the responsibility away from her. She liked to show it off and use it when she wasn't supposed to and so she has no cell phone now. She borrows mine when she goes to walk the dog or walking with her friends to their home. She always ensures she returns it. I may trust her with a cell phone in the near future because she is older and more responsible now.
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
21 May 07
Yes, that is a good lesson to learn. People steal all of the time and that is what happened to my daughters phone. I was so upset when it happened. But she knows now that she can't do those things. Yes, feel free to use this as an example!
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 May 07
Thats what I'm always telling them my kids that don't use cell phone in public coz here in our place there's a lot of snatcher. Thanks for sharing I will tell my daughters about it at leats I have a proof for them to show that having a cell phone is a lot of responsibility.
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@mexshyl (878)
• China
19 May 07
Hello, lynboobsy11. If I have my child, I'll give him/her a cellphone. First of all, I'll tell him/her how to call others and receive from others politely to aviod the possible troubles. I give my kids a phone because I think it's convenient for me to contact with him/her at any time. What about you, lynboobsy11?
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 May 07
Before giving her a cell phone I will warned her for not using it to public places coz there are so many snatcher in the street that may grab her cellphone. Thanks for sharing.
@mexshyl (878)
• China
20 May 07
Yeah, if they are too young, you should avoid them using it in public places because of those dangerous people.
@ssh123 (31071)
• India
3 Sep 07
My wife does not use. I use sparingly. In school, it is not allowed. While playing it is not required. Mostof the remaining time he is with us. Where is the need for cell phone. May be working parents require to give their children a cell phone.
@oaks281 (84)
• United States
21 May 07
We just gave our 9 year old daughter a cell phone. We got it for her because she is going to stay with family out of state for the summer and we wanted her to be able to call us when she wants without running up running up the phone bill out there. We have a family plan so she is only allowed 200 mins. a month. So far it has beeb working out pretty well. I do like knowing that I can get ahold of her whenever I need to. I still think she is a little young but maybe this will teach her some responsability.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
21 May 07
Yeah handling responsiblity for young age can be start for them to learn. Like my daughter too who is 9yrs. old also. I gave him cellphone to start how to handle the things that are valuable to her. But of course advise and precaution are important too. Thanks for sharing.
@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
19 May 07
My 13, 15 & 18 yr old all have cell phones. They are very responsible with them because they are in charge of paying their portion of the bill. If they go over in minutes, they pay the difference. I feel that this teaches them responsiblity and makes their phones more important to them so they care for them properly.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
20 May 07
Yeah thanks for your advise I will rmind them always that being a responsible person always. Thanks..
@golfproo (1839)
• Canada
19 May 07
Hi, I have given my daughters a cell phone to use only in emergencies. They are pretty dependable so I am not too worried about them abusing that privilege. I have seen lots of kids using cell phones at school for cheating on tests etc... If my kids ever did that they would quickly lose the cell phone. cheers,
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
20 May 07
Lucky you have girls who can mange their own. Thanks for droping by.Gud day.
@Madona1 (2096)
• Gibraltar
19 May 07
My eight-year-old girl already started asking for a cell phone, but I think it is still to early to give her one. As she will only learn how to waste the time and phone bill to talk rubbish with her friends. She may lose the cell phone too as she is a careless girl. So I will wait till she is 11 or 12.