girl is still inlove to her ex, who cheated on her

United States
May 20, 2007 9:46am CST
i have a friend who is still inlove to his exbf who cheated on her. everytime they meet, a guy always want her to make love on him knowing that he's still having a gf. And because the girl is very inlove to the guy, she can't find any reason to refuse. as a friend, im pretty much concern to her. if you are on my situation, what would you advice to a friend? would you want her to stay on that situation or not?
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4 responses
• Philippines
22 May 07
what a guy. his just using your fren for his own need. if i were you if you knw the other gf of the guy tell her whats her boyfrends doing.
• United States
22 May 07
if only i have an idea about his gf i would.. but i dunno who the girl is... thanks for the response, i appreciate it
• Philippines
22 May 07
even you fren?
@dwynne (82)
• Philippines
21 May 07
Your friend is not on her right mind at this time maybe because of the breakup. But it's good that you are there to guide her. She needs a little shaking, and that may take time. Just be very patient in making her go back to her senses. Make her realize that she's just adding more pain to the wound. Talk to her a lot!
@dwynne (82)
• Philippines
23 May 07
and do it real quick before it's too late. more heartaches and pains ahead!
• United States
22 May 07
i cant help seeing her that way.. yeah im still finding new tricks to wake her senses up... thanks for the response
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
20 May 07
This is not love that your friend is feeling. There are many reasons why a girl would stay with a boyfriend that is not treating her right, but they all pretty much add up to low self-esteem. It would be different if they were married, a marriage vow changes everything. You should encourage your friend to talk to a counselor about her relationship. This kind of thing can become a very unhealthy pattern in her life. You should also help your friend to feel better about herself. Maybe you can compliment some of the things that you like about her. Make sure that you are sincere though. Sometimes our friends can help us to see good qualities in ourselves that we never knew were there. She needs to realize that she deserves better.
• United States
21 May 07
well, i really do want what's the best for her... thanks for the response =)
@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
21 May 07
hell no man... u have a gf, why do u need me to make love to u? right? if not, if u really love me, leave her... u cant expect to have both of the world man... but i suppose, if u were to tell the girl, she wouldnt listen, because the person involves cant see anything... perhaps, u could in turn narrates it as ur own experience, or another friends experience and let her know that the same thing is happening to her... u need to help her get out of all this shites man... but im glad u r there to care for her...
• United States
22 May 07
thats cool.. i will take your advice thanks