Too much stress with mother in law

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Well Okay heres my story: I am engaged to a man i have been with since i was 16 years old. I am now 20. We have been living with parents, grand parents, back and forth and really havent had a chance to live by ourselves. I we had our first child together last year. And since we are about to have another we decided to move to florida, where we could get out on our own, be away from family members. Well My dear mother in law, helped us move down here and has been living off of us since february. I am close to my due date, i am due the 26th. So we got our apartment picked out and going to pay rent and deposit this week on weds and move in it by friday. We gave the mother in law a three week notice prior to this. Today she freaked. She yelled and screamed at me cause we were moving, she blamed me for moving, and taking her son and grandchild away from her. She called me a B*** and a Crack wh** and everything else. Well you know how people are and when you get them mad they say things they dont mean to say? I tried to ignore this but couldnt she kept hammering on me with words, so i called my fiance' and made him get off of work 30 minutes earlier to get me. He did, mean while, he told her current boyfriend how she was cheating on him with our neighbor, which was totally true, but we have been trying to keep our noses out of it. So to make a long story short. She wants 250, which is what she gave us to help move down here. We told her, three weeks ago, since she didnt put the deposit down on the current apartment she is at, that she can keep the 500 deoposit and use that toward another place, to call it all even. Now shes screaming and acting like a child. In front of my year old son. We had no choice but to call my friend breanna and pack all of our stuff, well most of it. We left most of it in the closet, which is just clothes in bags and boxes, and put some on johns, our neighbors, porch. We are going to come back and get it tomorrow of course. When i just got a phone call saying that shes on johns porch getting all of my sons toys!!! So now shes stealing toys from our son! Her grandson... I am very pissed...forgive me for the language. I am over stressed, and really dont want to fight with her, she is my babys dads mother. But we did tell her we are leaving in three weeks... She brought up the fact that she will have a minor surgery, removal of a thist on her ovalries, on the fourth. But she gets paid a huge amount cause of her insurance. They are going to pay her for her loss at work straight up, so she will get that by the 6th. She will be out of work for atleast two weeks, so thats two checks shes going to pick up on. I dont feel sorry for her. To me, shes done this to herself, she cant live off of me and her son for long. She knew when we moved down here we wanted to live on our own, thats why we moved down here in the first place! I dont know how i can make things better. It seems everytime i try to talk to her she calls me names. Apparently this all has been building up inside of her and today when it finally hit home that we are going to move, she decided to wait until my fiance' went to work to take it out on me. I honestly dont know what i should do, i mean i know i have no choice but to move to the new apartment but, how can i make things better between us? It seems impossible. Now my fiance' hates her even more for calling me names, which she even did infront of her! So now he hates her, and shes blamming me for it... I am at a loss..