what do you think most when you are alone?

@Zelmarq (12585)
Cebu City, Philippines
May 20, 2007 11:28pm CST
When Im alone, there are lots of things that flow through my mind and I just think about just anything. Most of the time I day dream, I think of the people and the what could have beens. Of course its not the bad side of it but the happy and exciting side of it. I think of my happy expereinces and the memories that goes with it. Its always the happy side of things. Sometimes I hate thinking about the death of my father. I just remember the happy days that we have shared together, but I cant help a tear from falling whenever I think about my papa. Sigh, now that I am typing this discussion, tears are warning to fall like rain.
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@limcyjain (3516)
• India
22 May 07
when i am alone i think about my parents who had showered with me with so much love and affection before i was married, my brother and also the sweet memories of my married life but as i reflect upon these the hard days which i had to spend due to my sister in law and my mother in law come in my mind again and again. These thoughts irritate me and i pray to god to pay them back for what they did to me and my life.
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
26 May 07
Wow, I am happy for you. Its so nice to remember the people who have been good to us.
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@tala91285 (1074)
• Philippines
22 May 07
I think about all sorts of things. From the stuff I want to get for myself to my boyfriend to my life with my boyfriend a few years from now. I also end up thinking about my childhood because I had a really great childhood ^_^
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
26 May 07
Yes, its nice to look back to those years.
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
24 May 07
Well, I am sorry to hear that. I hope next time you'll find something better to think about and it won't be sad too. I usually just try to enjoy my time alone and do something fun.
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
26 May 07
Yes, sometimes i think of the what ifs and the what could have beens and day dream about my crush and the days that I have seen him in the library and how I felt happy on those moments.
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• Singapore
21 May 07
It's bad. It's when you are alone that things get real bad. Your mind starts wandering and you think about all the sad things. Then you get depressed. So I can understand what you are going through now. Take a warm bath, have a good night's sleep and hopefully things will be better the next day.
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
26 May 07
Hello lordwarwizard! Thank you for the advice, I will try it.
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@jogie_bien (1103)
• Philippines
21 May 07
when i was alone i am thinking for the past of my life.The happiest moments together with my family.And when i was in high school life together with my friends.
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
26 May 07
Yes its nice to look back on the beautiful days and feel happy about it.
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@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
21 May 07
Cheer up my dear! Life is too short to be wasted by just any means of loneliness and heartfelt sadness. I do understand what you feel about your papa and even feel the same loneliness just a few days when I lose my puppy...she's only a puppy but I already feel like i'm lossing everything in me, how much more lossing someone who's very dearly to you; a father. Just a friendly advice; be strong and take courage in every situation you have to face and in every life's challenges may bring you. Well, to answer your question of what to think most when i'm alone. Most of the time when i'm in this situation being alone, i'm always get to thinking of eating while watching a movie :-)...movie would keep me company and I enjoyed occupying my time to watch movie than to think too much lots of things.
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
24 May 07
Thank you very much, yes I have embraced the emotion of the lose and I am moving on. Well movies really brings us to a place or the movie and ot would somehow let us forget the past and the idea of being alone.
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@el_jeffo (750)
• Philippines
22 May 07
To tell you the truth, I think of pretty weird things when I'm alone. I think of shows I've watched, of funny lines, sometimes even trains. But I also have some 'normal' thoughts too. I think of things that I should be doing, of things I could have done better, and I think of my girlfriend too. I think of the past too sometimes.
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
26 May 07
well, its nice to look back on great memories.
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