do you think you can love someone only due to beautiful appearance?

China
May 21, 2007 3:06am CST
do you think you can love someone only because he is handsome or she is beautiful ? someone really can love others only due to good appearance,but some one will not do that. I am not a one will love someone only due to good look. I prefer good temper and the love itself. and I think good appearance is not very important in love, but I will consider it before I fall in love. what about you ?
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34 responses
@kara5287 (299)
• United States
21 May 07
appearances mean nothing when it comes to love. but before falling in love appearance might be what first attracts you to a person until you get to know them. cause i know ppl that are very beautiful but their attitude and how they treat ppl makes them very ugly.
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• Philippines
21 May 07
it is normal for us to admire somebody due to their looks. but love needs deeper level of admiration.. it is importance for me that he respect me for who i am and love me unconditionally.
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@hmike_d (1529)
• Philippines
21 May 07
It always reminds me that love is blind. It sees neither about physical appearance nor attitudes. This has been often misunderstood, but well, we can easily admire persons who are really good in our eyes. But sometimes, it is only up to lust!
21 May 07
Beauty is only skin deep and true beauty is what is hidden within. I don't care if someone is beautiful or handsome, sure there is always some kind of physical attraction at first, but look beneath the outside and see what a person is like underneath.
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• India
21 May 07
first of all i dont love any one else then my family my friends. secendly i dont think i will love some one because she is beautiful. if ever i love some one ill make sure that she is beautiful from with in. its not about how u look but who u are from heart. ill never have a girlfriend who finds me attractive but who has read and unstood the state of my heart.
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@miaolin (397)
• China
21 May 07
It's absolutely impossible for me to love someone due to beautiful appearance.I think that to love at first sight may be the same as this one.Of course,appearance is one of factors for me to choose my love,but not the main one.I prefer to good character and the feel between us.So the love-at-first-sight won't happen on me.
• India
25 May 07
External beauty is not enough for love.Internal beauty is must for love.External beauty is faded with time but internal beauty never faded with time,it lasts forever.It is not the beautiful appearance which makes you to love someone forever.It is beautiful nature, good thinking,and understanding which makes you to love him or her forever till your last breath.
• Philippines
25 May 07
when one falls simply for somebody's beautiful appearance, we call that attraction. love is different. before one can fall in love with somebody, an element of time is needed to have the feelings fully developed. others thought that getting obsessessed about somebody's looks is tantamount to falling in love. this is not so. for obsession is not love for somebody else. it is himself that he loves instead of the object of obsession. observe an obsessed person and you will understand why i have said so.
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
25 May 07
Me too,i will consider his look.Cuz it is really an awful thing to let ourselves to be with a man with terrible face.But as time goes on,it is his personality and love matters more than look.So i believe loves of those couples who only attach importance on their partners' looks is not real loves at all.What if the beautiful face fades?Beauty is just like flower:there is no flower which blossms all the time.It is the love that lasts.
@BrainTeaser (1428)
• Pakistan
25 May 07
I totally agree with you it isnt that important how one looks from outside but its all about inside ,as said by someone beauty lies within someone and its not about the how handsome and pretty one is.I prefer shyness,politeness and willingness to sacrifice as i can give these in return aswell. And now i know why are you running away from me hehehe.
@dita13 (431)
• Indonesia
21 May 07
I think the first time we saw someone, is from their appereance.. and we will have more attention to those who have beautiful appereance. but not all of them have a good personality, if we are getting to know them.. well, for me, I don't love someone because of his appereance, I don't know why I love him.. but usually, I like someone that makes me funny, and I don't care whatever his appereance looks like, but if he is funny and he can mke me laugh everyday, then, that's might be the one I love!
@bigcage (108)
• China
22 May 07
it's true people with good looking always can attract much more attention than others, but to love it's an deep feeling not just a superficial appearance, the one you loved will fit for each other at lots of aspects, not only looking , and most beautiful appearance will change as time fly . i will enjoy the beauty whose face ,figure are gorgeous at street, but i only love the one in my heart.
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@mean_queen (1713)
• Malaysia
21 May 07
well, of course the first initial reaction would be to get attracted to someone physically, whether that person is beautiful or handsome. but for me, the person needs to prove more than physical beauty for me to wanna get to know him better! he has to have 'substance' in his personality. there's no use if he's just good looking but useless in everything else~! i need a man that can make me laugh, and keep my mind juice flowing! that's what really matters to me~! the fact that my bf is good looking, well that's just an added bonus! ;)
• Philippines
22 May 07
hmmmm...the most important thing in a relationship is u have the trust and love..no matter what!appearance is no object in love...
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• Philippines
25 May 07
trust and love are 2 of the most important elements in a good relationship. i hope that you will find these elements in the person that you love.
• United States
22 May 07
I need more than just appearance, I need brains.
@nill_07 (1104)
• Bangladesh
22 May 07
"Don't fall in love only watching one's face because face is not the miror of mind." Human like beauty it is natural. Appearance may not be the standard for love.. Every man in this world contains a personal world in his inside.. that world may be nice or ugly & it is the matter of observe before fall in love. The person whom you will prefer from your deep mind will look always good, it is also natural. Temperment is really factor to be a nice person... No doubt, you are walking on the right way about falling love... Love is the most important role in our life & everybody of us should be aware about this.
@cutiedhes (507)
• Philippines
24 May 07
At first of course physical appearance is to be consider as one though if you got the chance to know the person i think inner appearance is more important than anything else. For me i can love a person with good looks but i can also turn down that person if i knew it that he is not that type of person who is gentle, caring and loving and does not know how to respect a girl. That kind of person does not deserve someone like me and does not know how to love so its better to go for someone who is not that much good looking but deep inside he is the most handsome person you have met.
@shinjiao (1457)
• China
22 May 07
Hi,sallyxu126! I cannot love someone only due to beautiful appearance.The beautiful appearance is attractive but not charming for me.I prefer a partner with an intelligent brain rather than the one with beautiful appearance.The beautiful appearance can be withered with ages but the intelligent brain can be more charming with ages.
• China
22 May 07
if you mean love at first sight,i will say yes, i do believe.That is human nature,though we were told that we can't judge a people by what they look.but the truth is we all like to make friends with the attractive person around us.And that is good.
@rakhii (1302)
• India
24 May 07
I can never go for love on the basis of outer appearance. I want a guy who is educated and vell placed and one with whom I feel that I can spend my entire life. Love only on the basis of outer beauty doesnt work for long.....what do u say....??