Eavesdrop - is it a good habit?
By Ellie
@ellie26 (4139)
Malaysia
11 responses
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
21 May 07
Yes, I do have a problem with that. I haven't had it happen that much in my life, but when it does, I don't talk to them anymore. It is not a trait I think is complimentary in friends. I don't need my friends talking about me behind my back like that, and if they do this they aren't really my friends and I am not losing anything. Eavesdropping is dangerous business!
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@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
23 May 07
You are right! A true friend would never tell someone else your confidential words that you shared with him/her. It is sad when they do tell someone your problems and then they other person starts to tell some other people and pretty soon everyone knows!
@linzmcwilliams (1552)
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21 May 07
It really would depend what i had been talking about. If i found out that someone had been listening when i was having a casual chat i wouldn't mind but if i was talking to someone about something serious it might bother me. I would certainly say something if i heard someone bad mouthing me, i would want to know what i had done to deserve it.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
21 May 07
i hate it when ppl eavesdrop. i never do that and would not want others to do it with me. healthy gossip is okay but when it goes to the extent of demeaning someone i am far away from it. i cannot be judgemental, that would hurt me more than if i catch someone scanning me.
perhaps, i would not confront them just to avoid the blatant bitterness. however, this would definitely made me wise and i would make sure to ensure my privacy in leting out things to my close ones.
thanks.
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@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
21 May 07
Yeah, it bothers me a lot. Eavesdropping is a very bad thing to do actually, worst habit i must say. . It depends on the situation really, if i hear someone backstabbing me then i'll confront the person right there and then. . . I remember our housemaid, shes such like one and she was just kicked out of our house a week ago. Cant stand her being one and rumor-mongrer you know.
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@easy888 (10404)
• Australia
21 May 07
Hello,ellie,i do not like to eavesdrop the conversation of the other poeple,when someone is trying to talk softly,i will try to stay away to them so that I will not hear the secrets they are talking because I may not be supposed to know what they say. If i can hear something bad about me,i will just let it go, i will not confront them,i just do not like to do it because it will not help at all.
@jlara_gtr34 (3491)
• Philippines
21 May 07
yes, it would really bother me if i found out that someone was eavesdropping on my conversation especially if it was an important conversation. i am a person who values privacy and i really dont want people trampling my provacy. if ever i knew that someone eavesdropped on me, i would certainly confront them, because it just isnt right.
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
13 Mar 08
it would really bother me if I knew one of my friends had been eavesdropping on my conversation. I would confront them and tell them I don't appreciate it or anything and remind them that true friends don't do things like that.
@ESKARENA1 (18260)
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21 May 07
i hate gossips with an abiding passion. In my opinion, if i have something uncomplimentory to say about someone i want them to be in the same room as me when I say it and expect the same curtassy. When i have evesdropped someone i always feel bad, but i can never speak with that person again. I just think gossiping about someone else is cowardly and dangerous
blessed be
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@bindishah (2062)
• India
21 May 07
I do not like eavesdroppers. And more than that I dont like it when someone uses information overheard to their advantage. I am not that type and even if I overhear something I would never confront anyone.
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@abroji (3247)
• India
21 May 07
I will find it very disturbing. and will loose all confidence on the person evesdropped my conversation. I don't expect such cheeting from the part of a friend. Once such a thing happened then there will be no more friendship with that person. However I wont be confronting with the person, because it will not better the affairs.
Thank you.
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@rojane (500)
• Philippines
23 May 07
for me, it's not good to eavesdrop other people's conversation. it's like going to a party uninvited. but if you just heard it accidentally and without any intention to really listen, it's a different case.
i hate people who eavesdrop and then relays what he/she heard to other people also. in short, i hate people who gossip because i just don't do that thing.
but if ever i eavesdrop and heard something bad about me, i won't confront them. after all, i'm not supposed to hear their conversation and it's hard being accused of eavesdropping. as long as i know in myself that i did nothing wrong, i just let them think the way they want to think about me. it doesn't bother me. my conscience is clear. and they will have to discover it.












