Graduation Gift

United States
May 21, 2007 11:08am CST
Ok, so I am having a hard time coming up with a good idea for a graduation gift for my ex brother in law. He is graduating from high school next weekend. I have been in his life since he was 4. I still keep in contact with my ex mother and my exes younger brothers. They were like my own kid brothers. I dont want to overstep my boundaries, but I do want to get him something and he did invite me to the graduation. Any suggestions?
4 responses
• United States
31 May 07
if you truly have great feelings for him - you know like he was family then continue to treat him as though he was family. I would think too much about over stepping any bounderies - he invited you because he cares about you as well. I am a big fan of giving photos. Try to find a photo of him when he was 4 or when he was younger and then a recent picture and frame them together....to show him the growth he has made so far in his life. This would be something that he could have forever :) I mean you could always give him money, but it will be spent and forgotten. Go with what your heart says and dont worry about anyone else. Have a good time.
@mememama (3076)
• United States
26 May 07
When I worked in retail, people bought watches for graduation gifts all the time. I think it's a great idea! Look up Fossil watches, they have some pretty youthful trendy ones. Or a nice wallet too! Good luck ;)
@katty0004 (386)
• United States
21 May 07
I usually give about $25.00 . I know when they get out of school they will need if they go on to collage , I know may son used his for supplies , it helped him out his gas and food , I think that helps them out more then anything , I don't think you can over do it by giving them money. Hope this helps out , and a great card to go with it to .
@thai11 (239)
• United States
21 May 07
A gift card or money will be your best bet!!! Its the thought that counts so he'll appreciate it and its not too personal! Keep it simple! I am sure he will love anything you give him since you have known him for so long, though-