Why do people reject you as a friend on here?

I have rejected a few friend requests. These were people I had never had a conversation with and whose posts, (when I checked at their profile page), were mostly about making money online. So, why did these people request to be my friend if we had never even had a conversation? To make money? No, thanks. I prefer friends who either have responded to my threads, I've responded to their threads, or we have both responded to some same thread. This at least assures some commonality of interests and a possible worthwhile friendship. Notice I did not say they have to agree with me. I have friends who do not agree with me on many things.

This is funny. I was not rejected until now. Maybe you got bad luck. I was accepted and I accpeted all the friends. And maybe there are people with hundreds and hundreds of friends and they don't want more because they cannot take care of all I think.

It is a strange thing that some do. When a person requests friendship, they one requested from goes and check them out and see if there is common ground or not. Also it seems to matter if they respond to their discussions. I accept all and it has worked well for me. The delete button is there for any that misbehave and I have not had to use it. Good luck with your friend requests.

I don't know whether people reject friend in their friends pending list.But i did once rejected friends afraid my friends list will be full with many friends which i feel hard to remember each one.But now i feel it's very bad to deny from your friends pending list.We are here to make friends and talk about many good things and get paid for our discussion.The more friend you have,the more people will give response to your post,isn't that pleasant to hear.So i admit my fault and will accept all friends in my pending list.

i don't reject request of a friend here..i love to add more friends instead of rejecting them..yes, if you have lots of friends here, these people can help you to make your earnings up when the time that they post response to some of our discussions, they can really help..i don't know to some of the members why they are rejecting friends request, maybe they have their own reason..we can't do anything for that, it's their choice..

I have. I keep getting a friend request from this guy, who I've noticed spams his friends comments with his website. And it's a fairly annoying pic that he spams with. So I reject him, he asks again, I reject him again....I just don't want to get spammed...hehehhe

I guess they are picky to whom they want to be friends with. I don't think you should take that personally, most people don't really know you and I think it is just fine if someone doesn't want to be my friend here.

I do reject friends on here because so people don't post interesting and sometimes what I think is a useless discussion. There are a lot of people that just start new discussions without any real quality. So I like to check out their page and see what kind of posts they start. If they don't post many I check out those they've replied to on occasion. I see your point but I don't want my mail box full of discussions that I wouldn't reply to either. I also don't approve guys. It's just something I do out of respect for my hubby. You can read what I've got written on my page about it if you like. It explains it a bit better :)

so far, i have not yet rejected a friend request. i know and i am beginning to understand why others keep this prerogative about holding to their right to reject some requests. there are some around here who are users. they want to have friends to make sure that they will get plentiful of responses to their discussions while, they hardly post responses to discussions of others. this is unfair. as we gather responses for our discussions, we must make some effort in return to post responses, too.

I've actually started a discussion about friends requests here. You'd be surprised that a lot of people in mylot are picky. I used to be not picky. I approve everyone who asks to be my friend. The problem started when I went to the "discussions my friends started" page and I found out that most of those friends are actually spammer who just post discussions to get referrals. I couldn't get to the good discussions that my friends started because it's way in the back and I only have a limited time when logging in mylot. So I'd reject a friend request if I think the person is a spammer, and someone who probably don't have the same interest as I do coz again, that would fill up the discussions my friends started with discussions that I couldn't even reply to.

The more the merrier. I welcome everyone who wants to be my friends here in mylot. I always approve friends' request without even checking on their profile. Rejection is the worst thing that can happen to anyone. So why should we reject a friend's request.