Are you hesitant to refer myLot to someone who is not that close?

I do not think had you given any referrals to your colleagues, that would have effected your privacy, untill you allowed it. Perhaps you mean to say...they would have seen your discussions...would have analysed or accessed about you....I think a far cry... Yes, I know it has become a part and parcel of your life. Because here you get a platform to share your feelings, thoughts, ideas, experiences, views....with your dear friends. And you know how deeply and seriously....your feelings are taken by your dear friends...and they also take it in the right spirit (atleast I am sure about myself). It is a good platform to vent out your feelings. If you do not wish to increase your referrals, no problem...I think your primary aim is not earn, but to share your feelings with others (friends, because adding referrals increases your earning...I think. For me also, it has become part & parcel.Though I have limited access to net...yet, whenever possible...I log on to see...who has responded...what has been written about my discussions and myself. Is there any PM for me or a new Friend's request?, I also check. I get a platform to pour out my feelings and thoughts here on the discussions of my dear friends and I am lucky that my dear friends always take my thoughts in the right spirit and right manner and always support me. I do not want to use the word 'addiction'....but logging on to mylot...is slowly but surely becoming an addiction for me(and perhaps I would have to approch a de-addiction centre....LOL!)

I was just thinking about that mimpi, i have a new friend that i do not know much, i just met her a month ago and she seems like a very nice person. Now i do know that she writes and that she will be interested in the discussion site and will participate full time here, but just like you i shared alote of stories and intimate moments here, and i am really hesitating if to let her to this site, because i am not sure i want to shre this information with her, not just yet. so i decided for now that i won't make her this offer. I do know how you feel.

Well I wouldn't either as you say there is to much here that you really do not want your Colleagues and that to see next thing you know they will make fun of you or tell everyone else I would not want someone under my Referral that I do not trust

You are absolutely right mimpi.I would not like my inner thoughts to be displayed and read by my relatives and cousins.lol.Its a different story altogether with my mom.I feel totally and absolutely comfortable with her and she with me.We are two funky soulmates lol.She is my only referral from family (though she is not very regular here).I did refer this site to a couple of my virtual friends.They are not a part of my physical world.:)

Hello,mimpi1911,I had not referred my friends,either good friends or other who i was not familar with. I knew my best friends would not be interested in online earning,so i did not even ask them to be my referrals. For the other friends,i was reluctant to refer any onlien sits to them because I did not want them to have any complain about mylot,like the low payment,etc. There was also risk in any online sites ,include mylot,i did not want the site i referred to them folded up after they joined,it would be very embarassing. I do not mind sharing my personal things with other people though.