LOVE is nothing.... It only HurtS...!!! Is this right..???????

broken heart - a broken heart repaired with bandage....
India
May 22, 2007 7:41am CST
Hey you all, I had a very bad experience with these kind of relationships... And therefore I hardly believe in LOve... What are your experiences...???
9 responses
@youless (112131)
• Guangzhou, China
22 May 07
Trust me, love isn't like what you think. I accept that love can be hurtful sometimes, but sometimes it'll still give you happiness. Many people experienced the breakup etc. You can regard that you meet a wrong person. When your find your true love, you will know love is everything:)
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• India
23 May 07
When I'll meet my so called "TRUE LOVE"???? Are you joking... May be your intentions are not to hurt me (I suppose), but they are hurting me dude.... True Love... HA!!! C'mon dude, are you happy with this philosophy of your own....????
@youless (112131)
• Guangzhou, China
23 May 07
I have no intention to hurt you. On the contrary, I am just encouraging you. I was sad when I broke up. Now I found my true love and get married, I feel happy.
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• India
24 May 07
i know that your intentions not to hurt me.... I was in angry mood that time i replied to you. So fault is mine... SORRY!!! :)
@brand4less (1061)
• Indonesia
23 May 07
nearly 3 years ago,a guy i thought i was madly,truly in love with broke up w/me.it was the most painful experience of my life and i told him that no matter how long it took him to come around to loving me again i'd always be there.i really didn't think i could ever feel that way again.but then..i met this amazing guy and within a few weeks i knew i'd found something very special.we're now together 2 years and married for 3 months and we've had our ups and downs but we are so in love in a way i never was before.i never thought i could feel love again but just as all my friends and family told me;i did! pls hang in there,you might feel like your life will never get better and trust me,i know how awful the feeling is.but things will get better.just know that it's ok to be angry,upset and even feel a little desperate but make sure you remember that there is always hope.
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• India
5 Sep 07
thnx 4 dis one..... now i also met 1 girl who amazing... n again thanks 4 cheering me up.....
@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
22 May 07
I have had bad experiences too... But i think that love makes one person happy too... Yesh, it can be hurting when u find the wrong partner or when the partner and u quarrel, but think of the positive side... If everything is fine, u guys would be leading a good and happy life... I have had 4 failed and pretty bad relationships... All cheated on me and had other girls behind my back... Yet, im happily in love yet again... I dunno how long my happiness might last me this time... But be contented, for it happened... =)
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@aniez0906 (263)
• Indonesia
23 May 07
NO! that's primitive thinking... love can be hurts but it can be happy also..., so you must keep your love to make you always happy...
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• India
23 May 07
Hey you... Thanks for this short and sweet and cheerful reply... But I think that I can't understand that happy side of love in my rest of life.... But anyways thanks, for that...!!!
@latsmom (824)
22 May 07
I have been in a couple of bad relationships, when I am giving them my all the other person is horible to me without going into too much detail for personal reasons, but then as soon as I think enough is enough then they all of a sudden then want to treat me right and shower me with love, strange hey? Yes love does hurt and I have only had bad experiences but I am not going to give up hope yet, adn hope to find Mr right one day.
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• India
23 May 07
This reply was an encouraging one... Thanks!!! But it seems like I cannot bear this much... But anyways thanks for this... Do you believe in that what happens is for goodness of us...???? Like me and my girlfriend broke up and see my result is very good... I alloted II position in my class... Do you believe in such things...?????
@oliverdt (1958)
• Philippines
22 May 07
In every religious belief they have defferent understanding when it comes to love. Some don't take this seriously, they just play with it, some take it deep in their hearts. Thats why we have alot of defferent views when it comes to love, let just respect each others belief. I respect you if you say it only hurts and its nothing. But my advice is that, you need to give yourself one more chance. Try to find the right love for you.
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• India
23 May 07
Hey thanks for explaining this much... You are being so philosophical dude. But you are right.. Some people take it in wrong way.. May be I or may be her, I don't know exactly whose fault was that...!!! Now tell me that you ever had true LOVE...????? Or you are also roaming with a broken heart as mine... Just kidding, but reply is must.
@magica (3707)
• Bulgaria
22 May 07
I think that the unconditional love is eternal. Everything else here at the earth is temporary. So i dont care too much, there is no drama. Just a transition between love and hate, meeting and separation.
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• India
22 May 07
what do you mean....???? Do I've to wait for right person... did you mean that????????
@zaichn (319)
• Philippines
22 May 07
I have to disagree with you about "LOVE is Nothing".. For me, it is really something.. Something that weakens the soul, makes your heart beat differently for that one person, that special person. Yes, it does hurt. It hurts a lot. The pain will always be there, but at the end of that road, you will always find peace.. whether love is there or not.. P.S: I find myself like a sissy for saying things like what i said above.. But thats how I feel.. LOVE. :) Peace man..
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• India
23 May 07
do you think what you have written is practical.... I felt it like you have typed this material from books...!!!! This is not the truth dude..!!! May be you are right but in my case, your this thought will never be accepted... Sorry, but I still think that LOVE and EMOTIONS only hurts.... A life without emotions is very straight and simple...!!! But thanks for your advice, may be in future I'll think about it... So thanks!!!
@fengbo (731)
• China
22 May 07
I don't agreed with your opinion.Love always rely on themselves to pay.The lover always make you hurt but the process is happy,we enjoy the is the process of the love.I think once failtrue not is the finally,you can have the another lovers in the next times.please don't refuse really love.
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• India
23 May 07
Ha Ha Ha... Means you are trying to say that : Think about NEXT and forget about REST... This reply is a cool one but I'm not in that mood now..... So thanks for this cheering.... And tell me that you have tried this out or not on yourself...?????