The last person you have to apologize before you die

Philippines
May 23, 2007 1:02pm CST
Here's a what-if situation guys: What if you knew your last day would be this instant? What would be your last apology, and to whom you would say it? For me, I would ask an apology from my mother because ever since I was a kid I really was a pain in the neck. I never heed any of her advices nor her suggestions that I always take as harsh criticisms. I love my mom so much, but there's just been too many for us to say sorry again to each other (although at this point we are very good, but I think our relationship has a small dent). I'd also like to apologize to my dog, whom I had neglected because she messed up around the house so I let her be with herself and I gave her milk, not knowing she had been suffering from constant diarrhea! Poor Hershey... How about you? What would be your apology, and to whom?
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5 responses
• India
23 May 07
If this is the last moment of my life I would apologise to only the supreme GOD. God sent us down to this earth to be good to others and enjoy the nature created by him. But we in return radiated only hatred, jealosy etc.
• Philippines
24 May 07
Wow, that was kind of deep. I liked your answer, I hope you are truly sincere with that not just for the mere sake of answering. Anyway, it's great that you apologize to God. I would too, but He knows it by heart. What I do is I pray to him every night to forgive me from the things I've done that day. Thank you for your opinion!
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• India
24 May 07
The same here. I ask for God's forgiveness every night before sleeping and ask him to guide me for the next day so that I do not repeat or commit any new mistakes. Even if I upset someone its a mistake right?????.....
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• Philippines
24 May 07
We are humans, and we do upset people at most times. I think it's not considered a mistake if you didn't do it on purpose and with full knowledge and intention. However, it is nice of you to pray for having people upset. Lol. Thanks for your response!
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• Malaysia
23 May 07
I would like to appologize to my bf for not loving him enough. Despite he is always around me, i just didn't focus on building a real sucessful relationship. We are just calm with each other's companion and as time passed by, we been together for 5 years and nothing really happened and nothing really planned for our future.
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• Philippines
24 May 07
That was a real turner. I sympathize for what happened. Maybe some things aren't just meant to last. I really do agree that you have to apologize to your boyfriend. Have you done it already? Or you are just going to in the future?
@rosebug23 (1909)
• Australia
23 May 07
I have never thought about this before so i had to think about it but i dont have anyone i need to apologise to .i am a pretty up front person so say what i have to let the other person respond and settled.I can't think of anyone or any reason i need to apologise to or about.I must say i was prety happy when i resalised that.It is nice to know that all is well with everyone if anything should suddenly happen. always tell the peoplei love how i feel so all is fine should something happen to me
• Philippines
24 May 07
I could relate to you in some parts of your answer. I am upfront too and I always tell sorry if I think I should, especially right away to make the other person feel better. But is there someone in particular you wanted to apologize to?
@rosebug23 (1909)
• Australia
27 May 07
No,i do not have anyone in particular i need to apologise to or make amends with. I am happy to say i have a clear concious nd it is great.
@gellah (197)
• Philippines
27 May 07
Before I die, I would apologize to my parents. They chase food and give us the luxury we need but sometimes, my sister and I tend to disapoint them. We really are sorry for all of those that we did to them that made feel bad. I love them so much!:)
• Philippines
27 May 07
Aww, that's touching. Me too, I'd say sorry to my parents for being such a pain in the neck ALWAYS. Lol. But I do love them so much. Thanks for the answer!
• Philippines
27 May 07
i really cannot think of anyone. i have made it a habit to say my sorries immediately after i have realized that i have done someone wrong or, if i had let anyone down. i say my prayers each morning, and do the same each night. i always prefer to have it safe. if i have offended my Creator during the day and i didn't get to wake up the following morning, i am pretty sure that i have asked for God's forgiveness already, if i die anytime during the day, i am sure that i have asked for God's blessings for the day. may God see me worthy of Him at all times of my life.
• Philippines
27 May 07
Thanks for your response. We have the same routine, although I usually tend to pray at night. At morning, I usually greet God and thank Him for the wonderful day He has given me, even if it does not turn out good I am still thankful. I agree it's better that you pray everyday and ask forgiveness because you never know when will your time be. Time flies very fast now, and it's very helpful if before you die at least you have asked forgiveness from Him. Pretty sure, He'll do the rest.