How will you break it to her gently?
By Kreallian
@Kreallian (18)
Philippines
May 23, 2007 10:39pm CST
Well fist, this discussion will seem to be for guyz only coz I only used "her". But Girls can comment as well coz they might wanna add up opinions. But its specifically for guys.
If you're a guy, and you feel like you're falling out of love. How will you tell her? No third party... you just wake up one day and boom... the feeling is gone.
You know she doesn't deserved to be hurt coz she didn't do anything wrong or never did something wrong to you. And she loves you sooooo much. How will you end it knowing when you do... her whole world will shatter?
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4 responses
@nelly5 (1424)
• United States
24 May 07
Okay, of course us females will respond to this too, even though it is mainly for the guys. I would say that if you just woke up one day and decided that you are "over" her and no longer love her, then you need to tell her ASAP, just be as gentle as possible. It would be very hard on the woman, but it would be better for her to know as soon as you know, so that you don't have to try to drag the relationship out and make the situation worse for the both of you.
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@Kreallian (18)
• Philippines
24 May 07
Hmmm, exactly... but the hard part is... braking it to her... no matter how gentle you can be... the thought of her being in pain because of you... its...
All you can wish for is for the feelings to comeback... or just die...
Even though the feeling is gone... the care for her is still there..
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@tala91285 (1074)
• Philippines
25 May 07
As the others said, you have to tell her as soon as you can because the longer it takes for you to be honest, the more it will hurt her. Try to think about how you will tell her. If you succeed in doing this, I don't think it would make her feel better if you console her or anything, at least I wouldn't want that if the same thing happened to me. She just might take pity on her self and be more depressed..
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@eaforeman6 (8979)
• United States
24 May 07
first off , be sure you have really fallen out of love....and dont make a mistake..and make sure this isnt something that you can work out. If you end it , you may never get this person back.
If you are sure then proceed with gentle honesty and be considerate of the pain that she has to deal with...and also understand that someone else will want her and love her., can you handle that..?..
@BladeWind (1)
• Philippines
30 May 07
yaishhhhh.... thats what korean people says when something has done wrong... as for you man... that is really a hard thing to do, breaking womans heart..
Here's my advice... tell her anything pati gunting.. thats all you have to tell her the "TRUTH".. i will share you my quote "LOVE DEEPLY AND PASSIONATELY, YOU MIGHT GET HURT BUT IT IS THE ONLY WAY TO LEAVE LIFE COMPLETELY" thats life man..
