I don't understand why he's acting like that?!!
By kharen
@kharen (1488)
Philippines
May 24, 2007 1:23am CST
We had an argument or maybe it was yesterday, I had my monthly check-up on the same hospital. He was expecting that I will be going home to our province last night but i said maybe i can't make it because of some reasons like enrolling with my friend rommel..he told me then that he hates me and maybe i was really having my check-up but with rommel...he also found out that we were always chatting, rommel and i, and we were close as he thought not that i thought about it... then after a while i told him that i think he wasn't really jealous because that's how i feel (or am i that numb now?)..then i told him that our conversation was going nowhere then there he stopped texting me and talking to me until now, i miss him but i don't want to text him first, i want him to apologize or something like that...
What just happened?? I don't understand why he is acting like that!!
4 responses
@purplehaze (661)
• Philippines
24 May 07
Maybe it really IS jealousy and insecurity. After all, he has reasons to feel such way because you are far away and he feels you get to spend more time with rommel than him. If you really care for him, you should try to explain and make him feel that despite the distance, he is still the one you love and that there is nothing more between you and rommel than just ordinary friends.
@kharen (1488)
• Philippines
24 May 07
I've told and explained to him already..i just can't feel his love, my mind tells me not to trust and that i am just one of his girls... and my heart feels fear that i may be hurt again, what shall i don to make him show me that he really loves me without me asking if it really is true?
@purplehaze (661)
• Philippines
25 May 07
Well, for me, even if you dont say it, he should still show or make you feel that he loves you. If you really dont feel it at all, then maybe you can find another guy who can make you feel loved and appreciated.
@purplehaze (661)
• Philippines
25 May 07
and in addition, if you cant seem to trust him and obviously, he also doesnt trust you, so maybe it really is better if you just go separate ways because a relationship without trust will go nowhere..
@nmhschic2004 (1238)
• United States
24 May 07
kharen are you sure it was not jealousy? Men can act very crazy when they get jealous. Maybe hes afraid that this rommel is going to come between you? Give him sometime to think and if you dont hear from him first maybe you should make the first move. Good luck!
@H2hydrogenz (574)
• Indonesia
25 May 07
Well i think you should meet and talk to him from heart to heart and see what kind of road that he choose and you also have to decide your road. The key here is be honest with yourself.;)
@nmhschic2004 (1238)
• United States
11 Jun 07
Hello kharen! Its been a few weeks and i was just wondering if things worked out. And if you got to the bottom of everything. I hope it all worked out for you. =)
