overcoming hatred toward mummy

Philippines
May 24, 2007 1:43am CST
My mum and I have been in a silent war for a month now. My duddie told me to bear with her moods because she is in her menopausal stage. but im having a hard time staying at home and not talking to my mum. to make matters worst, i feel rather angry and aloof toward mum. can you help me?
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@henazea (313)
• Kuwait
24 May 07
I dont know how old are you..but thats a stage tat I have been through..There were times I hated mum for so many reasons..Now that I have left my home and gone to college I miss all those..I find my past so incredulous.When u got out in the world you find many people to take advanage of you and u miss home and your mum,especailly when your mum says somehing consoling in those troubled times..tats worth more than a milloin other things..trust me...
@AshleyHasan (1024)
• India
24 May 07
You should never hate your mother, because god has given her as a gift to you. Mom has all the rights to scold you and tell you what is right and what is wrong? I think even my mom use to do like that with me, but when I have become mom I realised how much pain she has taken to brought me up and how much I troubled her with all kind of words..Its just understand what kind of situation she is going through right now..If she is talking to you then definetly you might have hurted her feelings, ple go to her and apologize , I am sure she will forgive you.. Some times you might feel it is not your mistake, even if it is not your mistake still you should give respect to her feelings and her ideas , go to her and say just one sorry, that will end the matter, I am sure you both will be happy and together again...Hope every thing goes well take care!
• United States
24 May 07
Just try not to be angry with her. Try to understand what she is going through right now. If she said or did anything to hurt your feelings you know that she didnt mean it. Maybe the two of you can sit down and have a talk about it. Good luck and i hope everything works out for you.