do you go Dutch with your lover?
By Luckywuyan
@Luckywuyan (360)
China
May 24, 2007 7:58pm CST
as far as i know ,in western countries ,they like going Dutch, and as more and more foreign concept come into China ,more and more people start to go Dutch,ever with their lovers ,i really can not take it .
i can't tell my lover that we go Dutch after we have a meal at a restaurant.i will be embarrased if i do it .
do you go Dutch with your lover,my lotters?
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3 responses
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
24 Jul 07
It is better to go dutch with friends and lovers. There is no binding that just because one loves, one need not foot the other's bill. Also until their minds are united, hearts united, let them not unite their funds. One need not demonstrate the power of paying as part of expression of love.
@golfproo (1839)
• Canada
19 Jul 07
Hi,
I can't say that I go dutch all the time. I like to pay when I am out. However, sometimes the person I am with is very insistent that they pay, or at least pick up part of the bill. In that case I usually give in and go dutch so I do not insult them.
cheers,
@pallidyne (858)
• United States
27 Jun 07
My fiance' and I take turns covering meals when we go out. We have not gone dutch since, well, the 90s! Going dutch is for people you aren't close to or aren't familiar with, in my opinion.
(Or if you are just plain broke.)
