Hardest thing to do

I think forgiving is the hardest. We can apologize but not really mean it inside. We can reconcile but still hold a grudge and the relationship is never the same. Therefor, I think forgiving is the hardest.

Some people find it so difficult to forgive, appologize and reconcile with their neighbours. Though its not easy, but I like doing them all, cos it creates a conducive atmosphere for we all. Thansk

reconciliation is the hardest thing to undertake. it is easy to apologize whenever we are on the wrong, it is easy to forgive one who asks for it. in fact, with the passage of time, we forgive a wrongdoing committed by somebody against us even if he had not asked for it. time heals, so we say and we are all aware of this. but, reconciliation is a different thing. this means that we will not only be forgiving and apologizing for any wrong committed, it means mending destroyed relationships or, relationships which had been adversely affected by grave misdeeds in the past. no one will ever demand for reconciliation if the wrong done is not of considerable magnitude.

reconciliation comes first for me,then forgiving the 2nd and apologizing the last.i have no problem with apologizing specially if i know i make a mistake.

My only enemy is my self. And it's hurt to forgive my self.

As I feel, I think all the three things are equally hard to do. Coz a person, who can forgive others faults can also apologize. And for the one who can forgive and apologize will always do hard for reconciliation of the relationship. So, this varies from person to person, how hard the things are to do for him. For me, all the three things are equally hard and equally easy to do depending on the extent of problem AND the type of relationship. Thanks!!!

well, they usually come in one package... and most of the time, what i find hard from these three i find hard for the rest... but the hardest is the one that needs effort and decision, forgiving. apology and reconciliation sometimes find their own way, without sometimes noticing it that you have reconciled and apologized to someone... but to forgive requires more that circumstances... it requires the whole person and time...

In my opinion,forgiving is the hardest thing to do with my rivala.

To me, I think the hardest is to forgive my enemies. But usually as the time goes by, my anger will be gone, too.