do you get annoyed when people are happy...
By jlara_gtr34
@jlara_gtr34 (3491)
Philippines
May 25, 2007 3:40am CST
and then you are having a bad mood?
well, i have experienced this a lot of times and you may call me a scrooge or a bad girl but whenever im in a terrible mood and then i find some people who are happy and bubbly, i tend to wish that something bad would also happen to them so that they will also be in a bad mood. :P
am i really that bad? or do you feel this sometimes too?
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5 responses
@jencai (3412)
• Philippines
2 Jun 07
Sometimes I also feel annoyed when other people around me are happy and enjoying. I get frustrated because I can't force myself to join their happiness. What I do is to keep quiet or sleep, I can't take to see them happy while I'm not. This attitude is not good for everyone. It's natural but needs to be controlled to it's limitations.
@jlara_gtr34 (3491)
• Philippines
4 Jun 07
haha, i feel you girl. :) there are times that we are so engrossed in our bad mood that no matter how hard we try to join the happiness of others, we cant! and we end up getting annoyed at them for being so happy and not even trying to share our misery. lolz.
i know its not such an attitude to wish that others would feel miserable when we are miserable, but just like what you said, it is natural. and it is our own decision to control it. :)
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@jlara_gtr34 (3491)
• Philippines
4 Jun 07
you know what, its not everyday that someone can understand our mood swings. i have experienced getting in to serious trouble just because of my mood swings. lolz. you see, i tend to be misinterpreted when i am having my mood swings. :P
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@jlara_gtr34 (3491)
• Philippines
25 May 07
well, hello there. guess you must be an angel huh? lolz. :) i do admire you and your patience in that kind of situation. :) good for you my friend. keep that attitude. :)
@samson1967 (7411)
• India
25 May 07
If my friends or relatives does that to me, I will curse them like you. If others are happy during my bad mood, it changes my mood from bad to good.
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@jlara_gtr34 (3491)
• Philippines
25 May 07
hello there. :) well, looks like we have something in common. i really get mad and irritated when other people are happy while i am rotting in my bad mood. :P lolz. :)
@CinderInMySoul (4717)
• United States
25 May 07
lol i am the same way! i find overly happy ppl annoying in the best of my moods, but when i am in a bad mood-i just want to hit them upside the head!
the worst ppl are those "wake up happy" ppl! ive never been a morning person, and its best if you just leave me alone until i get everything i need done. then im ready to deal with other ppl, but those that just wake up all happy and go-lucky and truly expect you to be the same are just asking for it lol!
@jlara_gtr34 (3491)
• Philippines
25 May 07
haha, a high five to you there my friend! :) i feel exactly the same way as you do. sometimes, when im in a really really really bad mood and some people just keep on laughing and giggling and guffawing, oh how id love to strike them with an anvil lolz. :) so that they would just shut up and i wouldnt wallow in self-pity. lolz. :)
@mean_queen (1713)
• Malaysia
26 May 07
well, i wouldn't go to the extent of wishing something bad happen to the other person.. hehe..well, you're not a bad person.. you're just human! :) sometimes i feel annoyed when I see other people being happy, especially when I'm sad. it's normal i guess.. for example, when i broke up with my bf and so all my friends with their bfs, it just made me sick! so yeah, i could be called selfish but i guess most of us go through the same thing.. :)
@jlara_gtr34 (3491)
• Philippines
26 May 07
thank you for afirming that im not a bad person. :P lolz. :) yes, i think it is just normal, an initial reaction from human beings. :)
like what you said, it may sound cruel and selfish, but we cant help thinking it because we are just humans and we feel that way because we feel sad or angry or down. :)
