Forgive and forget. who first?
By buen04
@buen04 (76)
Philippines
May 26, 2007 3:53am CST
It is inevitable for couples not to have misunderstanding. Actually its part of a relationship, so it's normal. Its part of the growing process of the relationship itself. But when having misunderstanding, there's a tendency that both of you believed it's your partner's fault. I'm sure this this situation happens to all of us. Because most of the time it's hard for us to admit our own guilt. Do you usually make the first move for kiss and make up or you just wait for him/her to say sorry first?
6 responses
@sazhikibuta (47)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
hmm...for me if it's really my fault i don't wait any longer, i say sorry and i mean it! but sometimes it depends on the person saying sorry or was the sorry is really from the heart or it's just a word SORRY!
Well it just so happen that someone i know always says sorry literally but that's it just a word. Maybe it's easy for her to say but really don't mean it! gudluck to her hahaha!
@serena_wai (970)
• Malaysia
18 Jun 07
Equal. Sometimes i am the one who hug him asking for forgiveness first, sometimes, i am too angry and wait for his move.
@Phlamingho (7825)
• Denmark
26 May 07
That depends on whether or not it is actaully me that's right ;-)
@juliefaye (1214)
• Philippines
26 May 07
Whoa! it's so hard to say sorry if it's not my fault. But for the sake of having peace of mind, i will do the first move to iron out things. When all is smooth and back to normal I will tell him that it's his fault in a way that he won't get offended, because when you do this during an argument, your partner won't listen. There's always a time for everything and you cannot force anyone to make him admit on his fault, let it pass awhile and do your next move.
@schersey_10 (75)
• Philippines
26 May 07
Its ok for me to say sorry first if i know that my fault. But if i know that's his/her fault, i should have pride and wait for her move.
@Cheryl99 (53)
• China
26 May 07
Most of the time,I was not the first to say sorry,because I would think I was not wrong on the problems at the very time,even I exactlly did something not so properly.But I don't dare to admit my fault when I find out it.
