do you want to have a baby or adopt one?
By Luckywuyan
@Luckywuyan (360)
China
May 26, 2007 4:45am CST
"have a baby will influence my good shape".i always hear this .
i do want to have my own baby ,i want to have blood relation to him or her,i don't mind whether my shape may change or not.
and also ,i want to adopt one ,because there are so many poor orphans in China,i want to help them if i could.
what about you ,my friend,your opinion ,please?
3 responses
@muscare (3068)
• Australia
26 May 07
Well, it's probably easier for me to answer, because having a baby certainly wasn't going to change my body shape,lol. Maybe my hair colour, I'm starting to see the greys already!! But seriously, my wife and I decided we only ever wanted the one child, and it was to be ours. We wanted him/her to have both our genes, whether they be good or bad ones and really just have that biological link. Adoption wasn't an option, but for those that want to do it, I think it's a great option, especially if they cant have their own.
@Luckywuyan (360)
• China
26 May 07
yes.
adoption is a good option for those who want to have a baby but cannot born.
thank you for your response.
@miaolin (397)
• China
26 May 07
I do want to have my own baby though my shape will change.I don't want to give up the right of being a mother.To give birth is the important part of being a mother.The experience of giving birth is so memorible and should be the necessiary experience of a mother.I want to see a life growing.It's also a kind of happiness.
@Luckywuyan (360)
• China
26 May 07
thank you.
oh, my,we are same age ,same country ,and have same ides.
good wished for you
@Phlamingho (7825)
• Denmark
26 May 07
I wouldn't like a child in any way, but if I have to at some point I would prefer to have my own. Wouldn't mind adopting though if that was the only option.
