Who do you put first,friends or family?

May 26, 2007 8:13am CST
I've always felt that family should be put before friends,but studying this thought in more detail i like to be able to treat everyone equally.if it was a best friend who i'd known for donkey's years over a family member i didnt get on with then i'd choose my best friend-some people might think this is morally wrong even if you dont get on with your family...what are everyone elses views on this?
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8 responses
• Philippines
27 May 07
family first.. because you are first your family. they're always on your side whatever happened to you. no questions asked. they are unconditional.. they're on to you worst comes to worst..
@alpine_007 (1469)
• Pakistan
26 May 07
i think that everyone should keep their family first and his friends second because i believe that friendship can breake but family cann't break, you will always have a relationship with each other
@Phlamingho (7825)
• Denmark
26 May 07
That's a good question!? I think I would need an example where I had to chose between my friends and family to know for sure. They are both very importnat to me, but I'm almost willing to say that I put friends higher.
@creb11 (416)
• China
26 May 07
Of course my family.I love them very much, they give me so much thing, I think most person think like me.
@jogie_bien (1103)
• Philippines
26 May 07
its my family because they never leave you when are have problem, they are always accepting you of what you are even you not good in your family.
• Malaysia
26 May 07
family is 1st...
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
26 May 07
i put myself, my kids and my husband first, after that it is my friends. However, i had never thought of it like this before and dont always feel comfortable ranking it blessed be
@nicolecab (923)
• United States
26 May 07
you should always put your family first!! My family is always number one on the list no matter what else is going on.