Why me?

It seems quite strange looking back the number of incompatible mates I seem to have teamed up with,its only when you get older you seem to realize the incompatibility and mistakes of past relaiionships.

This is what all asked that 'why me?' the word why me is all gifted from the almighty GOD and we can't do anything except saying 'Why me?' I oftenly say why me when I was totally broken and ditched by some one and in other aspects of life. This is what life all about 'Why me'. I am totally attracted by a girl and she don't give a damn about it =) Thank you for sharing your thoughts. And God bless you! May you have many more!

I always liked a girl but never proposed her, she too was attracted towards me but she also never proposed me... So the story went on with time just with HI... and HELLO.....

In a way you are right - I think people are attracted to those that they want to be like... I ahev always been with partners I could talk, love and respected so, I have nothing to complain, really. If something does not work out I take responsability because I think that is the way it should be - we are adults and if something does not work as we want it to then, we should act like adults and simply deal with it - nobody is perfect, as long as you accept that you will find the right partner - in my opinion!

I'm very blessed because I would say my husband is my dream partner. We are alike in many ways, but different too. For instance, he is very outgoing and I'm very quiet. So, we kind of balance each other out.

Actually, this is a very good question and there are lots of very good valid answers too! Lets put it this way - God made us 'imperfect' meaning, we normally should make mistakes and thus sin. Then we should seek to understand these sins and repent and try everything to avoid repeating them, which sometimes is more easier said than done. Now, when we say things happen for a reason, we often commit certain sins which would benefit our ego rather than our fate, but how would we know that? Of course, we feel better, safer, more loved, or belongingness co-exists with a certain someone BUT HELAS! that someone may be already taken or is already married! THEN WHAT??? Well, this is where everything gets very interesting and we start acting in very different way....some think you are meant for that person, some would simply do everything to break that relationship..but whatever may be the reason, WE ONLY HAVE OURSELVES TO BLAME for actions we would have taken and NOT FATE. Fate is or rather the OPTIONS that are presented to us by GOD OR HEAVEN.....and rest is dependent of how we act upon those options presented to us. God Bless you all!

most of my life, the men I was attracted to was not attracted to me, and the men I really was not attracted to were very attracted to me. I never could understand that. But now I have found my mate and we have been together for the last 7 years.

everyone should understand the universal law of attraction.people who are attracted to us and whom we are attracted to are our mirror self.everything that happens to us are of our way of thinking because we make our own reality, it is all in the mind and how we mange and respond to ourselves.do not blame the other party ,it is actually our own doings because everything starts with us.if we keep a positive outlook in life then we will attract nice people.haven't you noticed that whenever you smile at people the whole day,your world became brighter as if there was no trouble in your world but if you start to complain,analyze,justify everything around you ,your world is a bit dimmer.as i always say start with yourself, be the right person and the right person will be attracted to you.start being nice and be a little kinder to yourself and the world you want to see will unfold before you.this is not mystical.it is called cause and effect or for others it is known as karma or the golden rule which is the universal law.