how to get over a past relationshiip?

Philippines
May 26, 2007 8:38pm CST
My boyfriend and i broke up almost a year now. To be exact, it's been 10 months now, but i still can't get over him. Everyday, i still call him. I know it sounds cheap. But that's the reality. Can somebody please help me. puhleeeezzzz!.....
3 responses
@zandi458 (27951)
• Malaysia
27 May 07
Don't spend your live worrying about your ex. Just accept the fact that both of you have merely fell out of love with each other. Be honest to yourself and admit that it was over. It is not that easy to nurse a wounded heart. Go out and date someone else and discover the wide world outside you. You will gradully healed your emotional wounds if you see somebody. Stop all calls to your ex. It is not only women who suffer the "totally ruined my life" syndrome. Men are just as capable of playing this rediculous game, recasting the past as something far worse than it actually was. I am sure once you cease calling your ex, it will not be a surprise that your ex will be the first to pick up the phone to enquire about your sudden silence. Stop being the chaser!
@sweetsue (759)
• Philippines
29 May 07
broken hearted - mending a broken heart
U want to get over him, but you don't know how?..c'mon girl, of course you do! You just refuse to get over him.You are at the losing end. Calling him like everyday (what is that?like courting someone who can't make up his mind?, pls. don't degrade yourself too much. I think you've done your part in saving the relationship but some s2_d a___h_le get on the way! (I was kinda like the latter, I was once and I regret it verily!)))as you have mentioned, is a waste of time and resources, and that's a crap really. Nobody is capable of helping you, friend. The only person who could help you is YOU. Don't dwell too much on that, you'll be making your life miserable.I know, it is really hard to let go of someone you love so dearly. But just think of yourself also, is your love being reciprocated? In any case, don't worry if that guy truly loves, I know he will go back to you. Sorry to respond you this way.. sounds like a bitter person?...hehe. I think that's how it is when you are beginning to learn the lessons in life the hard way. I just realized that it is really not a male specie I want most in my life.And I can't really feel love at this very moment. TC!
@dcroome2005 (1211)
• United States
27 May 07
It's not easy. I am still not over one of my ex boyfriends or my first fiance. I am over my ex husband and I love my husband now but Brent and David have always remained closed to my heart.It's a tough one, especially when you were so close to the past relationship person.