do you feel nervouse after you have a quarrel with others?
May 26, 2007 9:09pm CST
you know ,after have words with others ,i will feel nervouse instead of angry. i don't know why, my heart just beats so hard that sometimes i can not stand it .maybe i have cardiopathy.haha.. and then i will become nervouse ,and a little be in a storm. maybe i need seveal hours to calm down, so the doctor told me not to have a quarrel with others .so now i've tried to do that,it's hard ,you know? what about you,my friends,what's your feeling after quarreling?
27 May 07
I normally will never enter in to a fight with anyone and normally hold back admitting others right to say or do what they like. But, too rarely, at times it may happen. And I will never get nervous, instead the anger will persist in me for hours. My fight will never cross the words to a physical attack. I never can beat anyone. Thank you Wuyan for asking.
27 May 07
after quarreling i feel guilty...maybe because i should have talk with him in a nice way not quarrel or i should had not easily get angry too..in short all things, misunderstandings can be solved in a nice way not by quarreling whether its your fault or them....
27 May 07
yes when I quarrel with others my heart beats fast and hard that I think it want to come out of my body. but when I quarrel I usually end up crying. my friend said its okay to let it out but I think yes because my heart start to beat the normal way. It is really hard to quarrel but sometimes even when you are so patient, it will run out if the person your talking to is closed minded. and your anger just come out when it is triggered. I know its bad to quarrel but it is hard to keep quiet all the time too.
28 May 07
my friend, i agree with you. since i learned to keep my temple ,i 've found i feel better than before. but also ,i will cry sometimes,that is a better way to pour out all your bad mood. thank you for your response. wish you happy without any qurral. LOL