do you feel nervouse after you have a quarrel with others?

China
May 26, 2007 9:09pm CST
you know ,after have words with others ,i will feel nervouse instead of angry. i don't know why, my heart just beats so hard that sometimes i can not stand it .maybe i have cardiopathy.haha.. and then i will become nervouse ,and a little be in a storm. maybe i need seveal hours to calm down, so the doctor told me not to have a quarrel with others .so now i've tried to do that,it's hard ,you know? what about you,my friends,what's your feeling after quarreling?
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7 responses
@sreevasu (2717)
• India
27 May 07
I normally will never enter in to a fight with anyone and normally hold back admitting others right to say or do what they like. But, too rarely, at times it may happen. And I will never get nervous, instead the anger will persist in me for hours. My fight will never cross the words to a physical attack. I never can beat anyone. Thank you Wuyan for asking.
• China
27 May 07
you are so gentle ,friend. you know ,i have seen many fight cause by men,i think most of them like solving the problems by fight. women maybe quarrel most. thank you for your response,my friend.
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@sreevasu (2717)
• India
27 May 07
Men have more muscle power than women. Women fight with their tongue only... though that is too hard than a physical attack. LOL
• China
27 May 07
hahahah... reasonable ,my friend lol
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• China
27 May 07
after quarreling i feel guilty...maybe because i should have talk with him in a nice way not quarrel or i should had not easily get angry too..in short all things, misunderstandings can be solved in a nice way not by quarreling whether its your fault or them....
• China
27 May 07
yes, maybe the reason i feel nervouse is regret. ah,you are Chinese too,you know i feel so happy when i meet Chinese again. like brotherly relationship. hahah.. wish you enjoy here ,my friend i add you to my friend list ,please approve. ok?
• China
27 May 07
hi there im not chinese but im living here in china anyway nice meeting u i added u already.....hope we could be good friends anyway where are u here in china?
@gemini88 (34)
• Philippines
27 May 07
yes when I quarrel with others my heart beats fast and hard that I think it want to come out of my body. but when I quarrel I usually end up crying. my friend said its okay to let it out but I think yes because my heart start to beat the normal way. It is really hard to quarrel but sometimes even when you are so patient, it will run out if the person your talking to is closed minded. and your anger just come out when it is triggered. I know its bad to quarrel but it is hard to keep quiet all the time too.
• China
28 May 07
my friend, i agree with you. since i learned to keep my temple ,i 've found i feel better than before. but also ,i will cry sometimes,that is a better way to pour out all your bad mood. thank you for your response. wish you happy without any qurral. LOL
@usmcsgtwife (4997)
• United States
27 May 07
i don't have angrey words to oftn, I am not one for confrontation
• China
27 May 07
oh,maybe you have good temper. i can not do that . hahaha....
@Sir_bobby88 (8242)
• Singapore
27 May 07
Well i do feel it too ... but normally i will still be complaining about the other party after the quarrel .so Kinda of hard to get back to normal lol ....
• China
27 May 07
yes, i agree with you ,and also that is why the doctor told me just not to have words with others . i have difficulty in getting back to normal in a short time. hahah.. thank you for your response. blessed be.
@ssh123 (31096)
• India
4 Aug 07
Yes I do become nervous, because I must have used up a lot of energy to shout and hence the lack of energy will have its toll on nerves. Have a nice day.
@usmcsgtwife (4997)
• United States
27 May 07
i don't have angrey words to oftn, I am not one for confrontation