Do you give compliments to your enemy when he or she did a good job?
By zengguoxing
@zengguoxing (773)
China
May 27, 2007 12:23am CST
Many people would hate their enemies very very much.They may dislike everything their enemies did,feel ashame to have a face-to-face talk with them.But,we should stop the behavior now,it's not good to perform like this.It shows us that we are narrow-minded men.
For me,if my enemies really did a good job,i'll give my compliments out without any hesitation and stingy shows.What do you think of that,my friend?Give me your opinions,thank you.
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9 responses
@Phlamingho (7825)
• Denmark
27 May 07
LOL my enemy? I don't have any enemies, how did you get enemies :-D
@zengguoxing (773)
• China
30 May 07
I suppose that i'm not the only one who said he has emeries,lol.
@luv2cook4u (398)
• United States
28 May 07
I do not believe I have any enemies, but I did when I was younger. A girl I did not like got very ill on the school bus and I went over to her to comfort her and make sure she was ok. I then got off the bus with her and walked her home. She tried to be my friend the next week, but I still did not like her. I just could not watch her suffer on the bus alone. That was many years ago and I no longer dislike people. I may dislike what they do, but I do not dislike them. I would help anyone if they needed it and I certainly would compliment anyone if they deserved it.
@Marchang (17)
• India
28 May 07
well! as of now.. i dont have any enemies..
If i would have any, then being a Christian i would love them instead of hating them! with their works all my gud wishes flows! i rather comments gud things in order to strengthened the bond with love! than to discriminate with my comments..!
@pinklilly (3443)
• Australia
27 May 07
There's a saying Keep your friends close but your enemies closer.....
I don't have any enemies, there are a few people I dislike and don't trust but I would still compliment them....
Treat others how you would like to be treated.....
@KissThis (3003)
• United States
27 May 07
To be honest with you no I do not give an "enemy" a compliment. If I don't like someone then I want absolutely nothing to do with them. I will either stay away from that person or I will ignore them when they are around. Maybe this is narrow-minded of me but I was always taught that if I couldn't tolerate someone to stay away from them.
@teapotmommommerced (10359)
• United States
27 May 07
Iv'e worked with people that I disliked but I knew they did a good job and was reliable. I would tell them if I had a chance that the job was well done. I would put my feelings aside and take their work into consideration.
I worked with a gal one time who was a good nurse and a hard worker but she was a witch with everyone else. Somedays I could not stand her but she worked lots of over time she was reliable and the patients loved her. That meant a lot to me as a nurse. I could respect her work but dislike the person.
