Is being a mother a job to you ,or just a wonderful experience?

I have to agree it is a difficult job, and men wonder why we're tired when the get home. My husband wants to try getting pregnant and having more children, what is he thinkin lol. Sometimes I want to try to though, i guess i'm a hypocrit.

The only thing I can tell you is work your tail end off and give some good quality posts, respond to everything even if you don't seem interested. Just give an honest answer to your fullest knowlegde.

Thanks Rose . You are kind as you are beautiful :)

Thank you you are a very nice gentlemen, good luck to you here on mylot. May you find other user that will show they're kindness in ways such as I.

Also my personal experience is that every child needs to fall .....Before they learn ... If we dig hard for and from them to work thing our way ...they may go mum ...with later comes in a habit to discard your words when they grow up :) I would be ask all the right Questions to them rather than giving out the right answers...when they are 3plus yrs

Very true, attention is a vital part of the childs life. Trully these children are our way to create a better future for the next generation, so let they're wings spread and grow in to beautiful masterpieces while you can. Be there for them when they fall an get hurt, so they'll be strong enough to carry on when you're not there.

I think that you are very wise woman, never lose that. Keep this in mind throughout your whole life, you are a wonderful mom; maybe one of the best.

I love being a mother, I wouldn't trade it for anything. It may be hard sometimes being a young mother and wife, but I love every minute of it. I think it is more an enjoyable experience. Don't get me werong, it is a full-time job, and it's one of the most difficult ones out there. But is a lot of fun watching your children grow up and develop.

I agree best job on the planet, us mom's have a wonderous job. Hard, but fun. The benefits are the best in the world, its the most rewarding job around. Your rewarded with the future of the world being in you legacy, i mean carrying on your legacy.

I don't have any quite that age so i wouldn't know, but I remember my teen years lol until next month i'm still a teen. However I remember all the greif I put my mother through, teenage pregnancy is what brought us closer. ( I hated getting pregnant, but it had some ups and downs.) I think that it was something that I wouldn't take back at all, even if I could. I love my son so much, i'd never give him up. He's my monkey lol.

Hello silentrose, I know what you mean. I wasn't part of "the perfect teenager club", myself. I gave my parents a hard time and I know I hurted them a lot. I didn't get pregnant till I was 27 and married. I know one thing, when I started to mature, I promised myself not to hurt my parents ever again, if I could help it. My sons gave them a lot of joy and that got us even closer. I thought it was funny that when I was a teenager, I was doing everything to not hang around with my parents, then after motherhood, I found myself enjoying hanging out with my parents. I miss them so much. My Dad passed away in 1998 and my mother in 2002. So cherish every moment with your Mom. Your son is a Blessing from God to you and your Mom. Being a Great Mom is not based on age. I know you are a Great Mom. You sound pretty mature for you age. Time goes by so fast. If you are not careful, life will just pass you by. One advise from me to you...Live your life to the fullest for you and your son. Discipline your child at a young age. Be careful what you do and say in front of him. He will do more of what you do than what you say. You too have to be discipline. Strive to be number one. Don't settle for a job that you don't like. Do what you love and passionate about. If you can, BE YOUR OWN BOSS! Invest Now. Harness the power of "The Compound Interest". Use The Rule of 72. 72 divided by the interest rate = the number of years your money will double. Read books about success and self improvement (don't forget about the Bible). Leaders are Readers! Go into Real Estate. Take classes. Make sure the time you spend away from your son is time used wisely and productive. Stay focus. Do not Procrastinate. "Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out". "God First, Family Second and Business Third".... Sorry long comment. Good luck and God Bless.

Does depend, sometime some days are harder than others. I know we've been through alot in the past year, but i love my family and my job anyway.

I didn't know you had 3, that's great. You must be very busy disvachic, three children must be a handful. I tip my hat to you, i've got one and its too much for me sometimes lol.

I know, its amazing. When you have a child, how you change and feel is wonderful. I couldn't believe that I had made such a wonderful little person, it was an amazing feeling. I wouldn't say as much as being god, but an aid in gods handy work i'd say.

I'd have to agree in some ways there, it is very hard sometimes.

I agree with you, I also am a stay at home mother. It can be very demanding at times, and even time consuming. However at the end of the day I feel accomplished, and I know I've done something amazing everyday. I raise the future of the world in my bare hands, and its up to me to make sure his wings grow big and brilliant. Its the best job in the world.

I agree ups and downs, both job and miracle. I noticed that you seem to be doing very well for yourself here being new to mylot, Congrats. Keep up the good work.