Who is the best adviser in you life?

Philippines
May 27, 2007 8:08pm CST
Do you ask for your parent's advice? Do you like giving advice or you asking for advice? Who is the best adviser in your life? Do you used advices given to you? Sometimes people tend to ask for advice but never really listen. I guess it's in our nature when having problems to ask for someone's thought about it. However, we never really follow what their ideas were. It is still our own thoughts that we used.
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@Nardz13 (5059)
• New Zealand
28 May 07
Hi there, the best adviser Ive ever had in my life is most probably my own instincts 80 percent of the time and 20 percent my mom, she gives me good advice but then I listen to my gut feeling and inner voice most of the time too, so i dont have to get my mom or husband worrying...
• Philippines
29 May 07
I guess, it would really help to consider others advice.
@Nardz13 (5059)
• New Zealand
29 May 07
You know Im over getting advice from others, they try to give so called advise and really there either filling you up with what they want in there own lives or what they dont have in there own lives, Ive learnt to trust myself for advise and Ive made some really neat decisions and resolutions, all on my own, I dont think I need to seek out other peoples advise or help, after all this is my life not theres, and Im definetly doing just fine... Thanks for your comment...
• India
28 May 07
My Mom .She is the best one to take advice from whenever I need it.She is the most practical person I have seen and so it is really good to take advice from her as she would give you a real life answer without being sympathetic or biased for me.
• Philippines
29 May 07
Yes, I guess mothers really knows best.
@hmike_d (1529)
• Philippines
28 May 07
It is always in our final discretion if we gonna follow what has been advised to us by that person or not. Precedingly, we kept on asking from more than one advisers. But if i may suggest, good advisers dont really commands you what you should do, they would rather guide you to arrive on your final decision. I could say my grannies are my best advisers aside from my parents. Well, i'm not that close to my parents unlike my grannies so i prefer to have that way. I also seek advises from my peers, friends... as they could feel the same way with me.