i need a good suggestion.....

May 28, 2007 12:18am CST
hey friends.. i have a gal in my coll as my best friend.. she is married.. we two are friends... but many of our class mates used to talk abusely abt us... is this the way? how can i correct them... got any idea va...
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• India
28 May 07
Better try to know them that u both r friends by tieing a friendship band to her and to u and better introduce her husband to all ur friends so u can clear ur issue to all.
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• United States
28 May 07
People are going to talk about a man and a woman being friends, its just natural these days. There's really nothing you can do about it, I've always lived my live by one motto "You know the difference between friends, and more" if you are friends then you are friends. You and her both know that your doing nothing wrong, so there should be no problem. Don't let what other people think bother you so much, trust me its not going to be long before they just dissapear into they're own lives again.
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• India
28 May 07
Hai friend! Its upto you how u receive your friend. If you are not having any other idea in mind then there is no problem with the friendship you maintain. People will think and talk in different ways. But it is your responsibility that her married life should not be spoiled i.e., you should have precise, compact, informative talks between you in public. As you think she is friend so u can have long talks and laughing instances that other can picture out and etc., are to avoided since she is married..... It is also dangerous if this rumour goes to her husband and dont try to make a group of friends once you made her husband a friend then your mind says to meet her in her house which is pretty danger that her husband may suspect you..... Better make short, compressive talks with her, if possible let her to meet you in your house along with her friends, or in presence of your parents.... Dont make private and privacy talks with her.... Once you maintain these automatically the rumour will wash off....
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@lexus54 (3576)
• Singapore
28 May 07
You must be having quite a close relationship with her that everyone can see. They probably also know she is already married. There is nothing wrong with being friends with her just like with anyone else, but you should know where to draw the line and keep your distance as far as she is concerned, if you don't want people to talk bad about you. Involving her husband in some of your conversations will help allay any suspicions about your intentions with her.