Are people afraid to do what it takes to be rich?

United States
May 28, 2007 12:31am CST
Are people afraid to do what it takes to be rich? I've wondered that for 6 years now. My fiancee and I were living in Springdale AR in an apartment. We were both working, doing well, putting money into my 401k and buying company stock, and had $1500 in the bank just sitting there. Across from our apartment building a small house was for sale. I had just started reading the Rich Dad series of books and thought that maybe, without any knowledge or expertise, to see about buying that house, fix it up, and renting it out. What do you think my fiancee said? No, nothing about how I knew nothing about fixing houses, abour real estate. No, she said that if we bought a house, we were going to live in it, not rent it out. I mentioned how we could make money by doing this, but she would not budge. So it passed us by, someone else bought the house, and appeared to be quite happy. Do we all have a comfort zone, where we refuse to go past to see what's possible? Maybe I try to look to the bright side of life too much, but I try not to think anything won't work, more of what do I need to know to see how I can make it work.
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@kiddygurl (803)
• Singapore
28 May 07
Did your fiancee also read the Rich Dad series? =) If she did, then I kinda expected that she would think differently towards your idea... I think the thing with money is that, people are afraid to the thought of losing money.. Most people know that having money is definitely convenient...but to most people, having money is a sense of comfort.. The thought of the risk of losing money in any kinds of investment makes hearts beat faster, and most people are not ready to jump out of their comfort zone... I think that if people analyze things before actually doing it, though the risk is still there, people should not be afraid to do it... I mean, people will learn something whatever the outcomes might be... If you lose your money, you will learn to be careful and analytical next time... If you make money, well...you learned to take a risk to gain... So.. Yeah, some people do tend to be reluctant to jump out of their boat... I agree.. =) Nice discussion.. Thanks!
• Singapore
29 May 07
True... People can't see little loses of money that are piling up high... But they are aware of it if it is a big lump sum.. I agree... Though you have analyzed an opportunity of investment, risks are still there..they are not gonna go away completely... When you analyze an opportunity, you will need to ask people around.. People that have some level of expertise in the area... The last thing, you'll never know whether an opportunity is worth it or not unless somebody tries it... Should it be you, or are you going to pass the opportunity and watch for someone else to win or to lose it? You can always learn from other people's experiences, true.. But when you learn from your own's, it hits harder, and you learn faster.. Just a thought.. =)