is he cheating or not?

United States
May 28, 2007 2:22am CST
how will u know if your bf is cheating on you or not, especially when he is treating you right? how will u be so sure that he is 100% loyal on your relationship? can you tell that he's very loyal just because he's so sweet on you? ive known some guys who seem to be very loyal to their gf but actually not. hit me up you perceptions about this...
6 responses
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
28 May 07
well for me, i would probably not know it at first but later on, i might coz if he is really cheating on me then he will tend to show some characteristic that is new to me or maybe he does things that he doesnt do before...things that makes me think or doubt him. but i dont really think much about this all the time coz i trust him, but if i find out that he is cheating on me...its his lost for sure, not mine.
• United States
30 May 07
well sis youre right it;s his lost.. thanks=)
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
1 Jun 07
thanks for the best response sis...GOD BLESS.
@Phlamingho (7831)
• Denmark
28 May 07
If you are with some one who you love you just have to trust them otherwise it'll never work out between you. I'm sure he trusts you as well, and you are not cheating on him are you?
• United States
30 May 07
ofcourse not. i know you should trust the one you love but ofcourse he/she should be trusted also
@mero026 (33)
• Philippines
28 Jun 07
cheating co-exist with trust... you really need a lot of assurance to make you feel secured that your man aren't cheating on you, for you to be sure if he's faithful and loyal to you...you have to analyze, understand his actions towards you, the things he normally do, if...he is the typical guy whose quiet, non-touchy person and probably say sweet nothings once in a blue moon and then all of sudden become so sweet, touchy and very vocal with his feelings...BE ALARM this might be the signs of disloyalty or should i say he's cheating as Psychology says about defense mechanism it is UNDOING...to do good things in replacement for his bad actions.
@martinha (631)
• Portugal
11 Jun 07
I guess you can't be completely sure about that. Even if he is treating you right it doesn't mean he is not cheating you. Men can be cheating and treat you right because they want to keep you and the other. Is not that uncommon. At the same time he can be distant and not being cheating you. Sometimes there are some signals you may see but it's difficult. At least I think it is.
@rikki8 (392)
• Philippines
4 Jun 07
Cheating is a human phenomenon, whether be it cheating to get better grades at school, cheating in elections, or cheating in a relationship. The question is, are you still ready to accept him after you knew he was cheating you. Would you still want to try to work it out with him after knowing the reasons why he cheated? I personally think that ALL men and women have a TENDENCY to cheat but the main issue here is WHY - Once the reason is known, the better the relationship will be. It is often a lack of open communication,understanding and acceptance that causes much of the cheating in a relationship.
@bornraf (229)
• United States
30 May 07
you will just now in your heart