Beauty is in the eye of teh beholder
By latsmom
@latsmom (824)
May 28, 2007 6:19am CST
I am a true believer of the statement that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I think that everyone has there own perceptions of beauty and that even though so many men look in awe at the page three models that the person they choose to spend their life with is usually different from the stereotypical look. I think that beauty for me and what attracts me to someone is a nice smile, sense of humour, bright eyes not necesarally a six pack and a tan although we all look on in awe at the diet coke man and the models on teh front of postcards and magazines. I have dated a man in the past who was very good lookinga nd took great care of himself and a lot of girls were jealous of this fact, but the guy had nothig in the way of conversation or intellect, I know that there are some very good looking and intelligent people out there but this goes to show that it does not always come as a package. I haev a little brother who suffers from an abundance of dissabilities and learning difficulties and although soem people stare in teh street because he is wobbly when he walks I wish btaht sometimes they could know him as the people who do love him so much and he brings so much joy to their lives. I know we can't meet someone for the first time or pass someone in the street without cnversating and think wow what a beautiful personality but I think ifpeople took the time out to look further than image that they would realise that there s so much mor eto life than just that. What would you say is more important, inner or outer beauty? I woudl love to hear your opinions on this and also what attracts you to someone.
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@magicalmerlin (1623)
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29 May 07
Hunks are good to look at but I would not feel comfortable near one. Thinking of our friends, I do not know anybody that looks like that. It is a good job that beauty is in the eye of the beholder as my husband thinks I am beautiful but personally I do not think so. Beauty does not last though, the inner beauty of character is must longer lasting. My husband is charming, helpful, clever .........
@latsmom (824)
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29 May 07
As long as your husband thinks you ar ethat is the main thing, but you should also embrace the fact that you are beautiful, everyone is beautiful to someone else, I don't think I am anything special but people have commented on my smile and other things like my crazy sense of humour and honesty. I may not fully embrace how I lok on the outside but my inner beauty surpasses most and as you say that is soemthing taht will last a lifetime.
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@rakhii (1302)
• India
29 May 07
I too believe that beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.
When asking bout my views on beauty, I would always go for inner beauty. Looks doesnt matter to me but let me say that personality does. The person should be presentable on not looked down by others.
I am attracted to a man that is well educated and highly placed in services. I am looking for a man who is caring and understanding and loving too. These are the things that attract me. Thats it....!!!
Thanks a lot!!!


