Fall in love to someone who has a gf/bf?

If you think you really love this guy and would give up anything for him, And if you think you two will be happy forever, And if you think he would love you better than her GF now, then go for it. Fight for him for it's gonna be worth it. I like girls with an attitude like Avril Lavinge and not the submissive type.

The most practical thing to do in here is move one and maybe you'll find someone who is available out there and be happy with him/her. There's no happiness if you'll try to get and destroy the relationship of the person you like. So I guess majority says you have to control your emotions and go as far as you can to tame your feelings not to develop further and try looking into others so that you gat what you deserve.

leave him if you do not want to ask for trouble and hurt the other two. he doesn't belong to you but there must be another "he" waiting for you in the future.

Love is a feeling that develops all by itself. You can't forcefully love or hate someone. If you are in a situation where ur bf / gf already is in love with someone else then you must tell him / her your views and pray that all goes fine. As one of you must leave each other. Pray that its not you. Be more loving with your bf /gf, show him / her more care so that he / she is attracted more to you.

Being young, this becomes a constant problem but with maturity, we establish better control on our emotions thus we know where and how to draw the lines of friendship and love. Lets be logical and have common sense. If you want problems, choose the less sensible option...:)

What I would do if I were in your shoes?... I would try as much to control, or if possible forget, the feeling. Yeah, it is not bad to fall in love with a person, but sometimes there are boundaries that we should try to be cautious about. If it would mean hurting other people just to get what you want, that I would consider very wrong. I think it best that you just stay away as much as possible so you would not be thinking about him too often... or of your feelings about him... and possibly, hopefully, start to forget what you feel about the person. It works with me, hehhee.. :) Blessed be.

the most honest solvation is to do your best to control this feelings. Never hope to destroy their relation just because you love. Sometimes the love is to sacrifice yourself because of the happiness of the other person.

I will teach myself not to continue to fall for him because I can't imagine myself that there's someone's heart who broke because of what I have done. And also I am a girl I will not do that because I know it hurts. And I believe in "karma"

the most rational thing to do is leave, get out and distant yourself from that person whom you're in love with. you wouldn't want to hurt them both or destroy other people's relationship. you wouldn't like it if other people were to do that to you too. but sometimes, matters of the heart, especially love..is uncontrollable. maybe the best thing is to keep your distance and just go with the flow. if it's meant to be for you and that person, then it's meant to be...if not, you'll find someone else better^_^

personally, i would and should fall out of love immediately:P even if the scenario is that the person who is in a relationship also feels something for me, i would still back off out of respect for the other party. if that committed person really loves me then he should know the right thing to do i.e. break up properly with the girl before he hooks up with me.

In my opinion,if they only have firendship or they haven't married,you can love he/she and stive for your love and lover.But if they already were couples ,please don't distrub them then disappear quietly.