Would you ever become a swinger?
By saralee1
@saralee1 (1982)
United States
8 responses
@hezoid (2144)
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28 May 07
No way! For a start, i love my partner to bits and thus aren't tempted by any other well (well ok maybe Johnny Depp but i doubt any offers from him would be forthcoming), and also there's no way on earth i could cheat or him, or would let him sleep with another woman, even if it was with my knowledge. We belong to each other, and are for each other only.
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@Stiletto (4579)
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29 May 07
LOL no I'm not one for sharing - I like to be the main attraction I'm afraid! I used to think I would find it a "turn-on" until I was in that situation and to be honest I just found it all a bit tacky and sad really. It wasn't sexy at all - just didn't do anything for me. I know a couple who are into all that and they seem very happy together so it obviously works for some people. They're really nice people too - although I tend to avoid their parties!
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@horsesrule (1957)
• United States
28 May 07
No, I couldn't ever do it. I have way too many emotional issues with those who are unfaithful in marriage because both of my parents were not faithful to each other and then my husband was not faithful. I also had a boyfriend who was not faithful to me so I defintely am against the swinger life-style unless the two people are both unmarried.
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@Michele21 (3093)
• United States
29 May 07
No way!! I am extremely jealous and couldn't imagine my husband sleeping with another woman. It would always be on my mind and bothering me...something like that would ruin our relationship! I know it isokay for other people but it woldn't work for me =)
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@Chryssi (828)
• United States
30 May 07
I couldn't. Neither could my significant other. We both have strong morals against that sort of thing, and we love each other far too much to do anything like that. He is all that I want, I wouldn't even dream of doing anything like that with anyone other than him. And I wouldn't want him to do anything with anyone other than me, either.
Even if your partner does know about it, it is still considered adultery. One of the 10 commandments is "Thou shalt not commit adultery."
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@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
29 May 07
Nope, I am sorry but no I could never do that maybe I am too old fashion or something but to me that is the same as cheating and giving permission to cheat so no I wouldn't. Not that it's bad if your into that sort of thing, but it can just cause trouble maybe down the line when one of them gets tried of doing it or sharing and wants to stop while the other doesn't divorce in the making..of course hypothetically speaking.
@brokentia (10389)
• United States
29 May 07
No, I do not share and will not share. Just the thought of my partner being with someone else in that manner breaks my heart and I would not even want him to touch me! And if I were to become sexually involved with another person, I would also become emotionally involved. Therefore, it would ruin the marriage that I would be in.
Now, of course, I am not married...and even though I am not married, I still live as if I am. And given that circumstance...I would still be totally crushed and would leave my partner if he were to ever cheat on me again. And to ask me to swing, sorry about him! I would tell him he can buy a swing set all he wants to play with...but it will not be with me living with him.
Did I mention that I don't share well?? LOL








